Looking at Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo’s divorce, why are relationships that are too strong often short-lived?

Because ordinaryness is the ultimate destination of love and marriage. How many strong loves in youth become more and more dull as time goes by. If we cannot go through the transition period from strong to dull, such strong feelings will eventually lead to separation. For example, the marriage between the two Song Dynasties. We first got to know this CP from "Descendants of the Sun". Later, because of this drama, the two Song Dynasties got married, which made many CP fans very happy. They felt that this was a match made in heaven. I want to die The two people think so too. After two years, there will always be unexpected surprises.

After two years of intense emotional running-in, they had a two-year marriage, which was also the sweet two years for many newlyweds. As a result, they got divorced just during the transition period from intense love to ordinary love, and it was still The peaceful divorce made many people wonder whether it was a marriage by agreement. After all, such things are very common in the entertainment industry. Although the reason for divorce is due to personality incompatibility and the two parties cannot reach an agreement, we all understand that this is a difficult problem that must be overcome in a relationship. Now that we have reached this point, perhaps it is not the outcome that we do not want to see, and we have chosen to get together and stay apart. .

At the same time, this also proves that relationships that are too strong are often short-lived. The key reason why they are short-lived is that they are too strong. It is precisely because of this that after the strong period has passed, both parties gradually return to the relationship. In normal life, the same is true for celebrities. When married life comes to an end, ordinaryness is the only answer. Strong love is worth remembering, but marriage requires firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Although celebrities are rich, they also have worries about having money.

The marriage from marriage to divorce in the Song Dynasty tells us not only that too strong feelings are often short-lived, but more importantly, it tells us how to manage strong love and bring strong love into the world. This is also true for marriages of celebrities, not to mention ordinary people. After a long period of marriage, two people eventually need to break away from the intense love and settle into an ordinary married life.