As the saying goes, "Wealth is written on the face". The ancients were very concerned about the quality of facial expressions. They thought that a person's personality could be seen from his facial expressions, and his future fate could be seen from his personality.
The ancients also had a saying that people were familiar with each other in terms of marriage. In the ancient marriage system, only the wife's position was recognized, so it is very important to choose a wife. "If you marry a wife, you don't have high cheekbones, and if you marry a Han, you don't have eyebrows." I don't think it makes sense. Why is there a saying that "if you marry a wife, you don't marry your cheekbones, and if you marry a Han, you don't marry your eyebrows"?
1. Marrying a wife without marrying a cheekbone is high
Mainly because the ancients thought that women with high cheekbones were stronger, possessive and controlling, and liked to dominate others.
Zygomatic stands for "power". In ancient times, women had no status. Women were required to obey three virtues. Too strong a woman would oppress her husband and would not listen to his words. Others would discriminate against this man and think that he was so incompetent that even his wife could not discipline him.
As an ancient saying goes, a woman without talent is virtuous. At that time, there was no room for strong women. These strong women may be ugly, but they are full of wisdom and talent.
There is another saying, that is, life is hard and husband is hard. As long as it is related to overcoming, it makes the ancients who believe in life afraid, which is related to the life of men and the continuation of incense. No matter how good a woman with high cheekbones is, her final fate is very tragic, and she may end up alone.
So think about how such a strong woman could be favored by men in this patriarchal environment in ancient times.
second, marry Han but not Lian eyebrows
what is Lian eyebrows? It is two eyebrows connected together, and two eyebrows become one.
Many post-7s and post-8s people should have seen Ching-Ying Lam's "One Eyebrow Long". He will be called One Eyebrow Long because his whole eyebrows are connected.
In the ancient face, it is explained that the eyebrows are connected with each other, and the eyebrows intrude into Yin Tang. Yin Tang is particularly important in the face. The official road represented by Yin Tang has been invaded by eyebrows, which means that this person's career is very bumpy or hopeless.
There is also a saying that it makes people narrow-minded, haggle over every ounce, and it is often easy to lose big because of small things, so it can't be a big deal, and there will be a tendency of domestic violence. Therefore, in the eyes of the ancients, such people can't marry, and life will be very bitter after marriage. Knowing people's faces may not mean not knowing their hearts
As the saying goes, knowing people's faces may not mean knowing each other, and people's hearts are separated. Although it is said that it is born from the heart, many people have high foreheads, which are brought from the womb and cannot represent anything.
People are all kinds, some are outspoken, some are passive Nuo Nuo, some are narrow-minded, some are decisive, some are brave, some are honest, some are cunning, some are vulgar ...
"You can't judge a book by its cover, but the sea can't be measured." You can't judge a person by his appearance. A person's personality is determined by many factors, which are influenced by the internal and external environment and the result of the interaction of various factors.
In the face of all kinds of people, it is the most important thing to know each other. We often like to judge people by their looks. Many people are not handsome and handsome in appearance, and they don't have a good-looking skin, but that doesn't mean that this person is not good. That person is very noble and helpful, so we will get along well with him.
Nowadays, many people don't believe in physiognomy. After all, it has no scientific basis. Marriage is the meeting of two souls
Marriage should not be decided according to appearance, beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Marriage is just two souls colliding and combining with each other.
Many people like to pick beautiful and handsome people when they get married. To be honest, as a layman, I also like them. I believe most people can't avoid facing beautiful women and handsome men all day.
Many men love beautiful women, but when choosing a marriage, they should consider it comprehensively. Appearance is not the first criterion for marriage. ?
Different marriage life and different personality values will affect everyone's choice of marriage partner. The most important thing in marriage is whether two people can get along, and marriage will eventually fall into the stereotype.
It's easier to fall in love than to get along with each other in marriage. For such a long life, you always have to find someone who will hold hands with you until the end of your life, and her appearance is not important.
If the appearance of cheekbones and eyebrows brought out from the womb can determine a person's fate, then it denies a person's growth, environment, education and other factors. ? Family, education, culture, social factors of contact, etc., all of which will change a person's personality, but it has nothing to do with our own appearance.
If you know a person, you don't know his face. To understand a person, you still need to spend more time trying to understand it, and you must be rational.
Therefore, it is unreasonable and unscientific to "marry a wife without cheekbones, and marry a Han without eyebrows".