"Extroverted loneliness" is a typical psychological feature of many modern people. They are sociable and have a good relationship with friends in their lives. They look lively and give people the impression of positive sunshine, but in fact they are lonely and sentimental and unwilling to express such feelings.
There is a kind of person who seems to be happy and heartless every day, but secretly it is lonely that others don't know. Take a star as an example, and that is Joker Xue. Many people should know him. I have seen Joker Xue on the show before, and found that he is such a person. He seems to be happy every day, telling jokes and joking, which brings a lot of happiness to others, but few people care about his silence when he doesn't face the camera, because he brings it to everyone every time.
It is such a person, their appearance is lively, but their heart is lonely. Their happiness is really written on their faces, and their unhappiness is firmly hidden in their hearts. You will find that they have few other emotions, just happy and then make others laugh. No one has seen her cry and sad, because they hide all negative emotions in their hearts, so they are unwilling to show more sadness because of loneliness. Because they are afraid that others will not get close to them when they see themselves like this, and they dare not face their own hearts. They want to look kind, sunny and happy every day. As for sadness, let them stay in your heart.
People who are lively in appearance and withdrawn in heart usually have these seven manifestations. Let's see if you have:
1, the first performance: the mobile phone never leaves.
2. The second performance: treat different people with different personalities.
3, the third performance: I know a lot of truth from an early age.
4, the fourth performance: sometimes very nervous, sometimes very quiet.
5, the fifth performance: easy to be sad, but will not be found.
6. The sixth performance: I have comforted many people, but I have no way to comfort myself.
7, the seventh performance: occasionally laugh unscrupulously, but more often it is silence.
Lonely people are very distressing. This kind of person is also a kind person. Even if he is unhappy, he will make others happy. Even if he can't comfort himself, he will try his best to help others. Lonely people are actually worth communicating with and making friends with.