About marriage
? In the traditional marriage customs in China, it can be roughly divided into the following categories:
(a), according to the sound of marriage; ?
(2), according to the palace of life for marriage (the so-called "four lives east, four lives west" and so on. ); ?
(3), there are also married according to the eight characters; The eight-character marriage mainly depends on whether the two sides' chronological columns are consistent, whether they are mutually generated, or whether they are contradictory and restrictive, so the methods are compared. Comprehensive, targeted and powerful, it is one of the most professional and effective methods at present. However, due to its strong professionalism and inconvenient operation, it is difficult for non-professionals to master and use it, so it also has certain limitations.
(4) The secret of the marriage of the zodiac; This is the most common, practical, effective and easy to learn.
"Tell me about my views on eight-character marriage:"
After free love, they know each other's personalities and tempers, and all aspects are well aware that they can get married as long as they conform to the marriage law. However, some people still want to get married in eight characters. Check whether the zodiac signs of the two people in the table of twelve punishments are appropriate. It's amazing. As a result, many happy marriages have been broken up, and many couples have been separated painfully!
The real decision maker is yourself! By feeling, through communication, whether it is personality, temper or getting along, is it time to talk about marriage? Can't get along, do you need to continue to run in? Control the temperature yourself. Be the master of your own marriage and never give it to your parents or others. I love this, but there is a principle that I will never marry two people who love each other! When a child is born, he is named according to the eight characters, matters needing attention, what kind of object to choose in the future, and so on. It can be said that Zhuge Liang was wise before doing things. The object is chosen, and then Monday morning quarterback, whether good or bad, is a knot in my heart, nothing, nothing, once something happens, it will be annoying! You will never be safe! ? It used to be the mouth of the matchmaker. The dead say they are alive, and the good say they are lame. The client is completely in the dark. In order to be satisfied, I prayed to God and worshipped Buddha everywhere, looked up eight characters and shook six hexagrams. It's different now. It can be seen and touched. Temper, personality, appearance, connotation, education level, and dealing with others are all exposed. What's the use of doing that again?
? The first sentence can be said to be wisdom! Believe it or not! Whether married life is happy or not depends on the joint efforts of two people. As long as the husband and wife tolerate each other, respect each other, love each other, communicate in time, twist their hearts together, work hard to support the elderly and raise their offspring together, is it good enough? How can you be unhappy? There is no scientific basis for eight-character marriage, so don't be superstitious!