Wedding custom
There are many ethnic minorities in Guizhou. Today, I mainly introduce the marriage customs of Buyi people in Guizhou. Buyi American marriage is monogamous. It is forbidden to marry close relatives. Young men and women are free to fall in love before marriage. Unmarried young men and women everywhere like to use festivals, fairs, group gatherings and other occasions to freely combine three people, five people, seven people and eight people to talk to each other or express their feelings through chatting, laughing and singing. To show your love. In fact, many times, the more complicated the marriage customs are, the more people pay attention to this, the more they can get people's blessings, and the better their marriage life will be in the future.
Unique customs
Marriage: In Guizhou, before the newlyweds get married, there is a custom of eight-character marriage. The matchmaker exchanged their birthdays and then found a special person to play the couple. If the eight characters match, you can get married. If the eight characters do not meet the T, it is not suitable for marriage, but you can also find a way to crack it.
Crying: Generally, the bride can start crying about half a month before the wedding. Crying usually means crying to your parents. Brothers and other relatives, the louder they cry, the better their morality. The luckier you get married.
Wedding process
1. propose
In Guizhou, proposing marriage means that the groom's family asks the matchmaker's family to propose to the bride.
2, eight characters
After both parents agreed to get married, the matchmaker exchanged their roles. Please ask a special person to see if the eight characters of two people are suitable for marriage.
3. Parents meet
Right, so after both parties agree, they will come out to meet. Talk about the details of the wedding.
Set time
Look at the lunar calendar and choose the wedding date.
amusement
Send invitations to invite guests to the wedding.
6. Crying to get married
In Guizhou, girls begin to cry half a month before they get married, and they cry in the form of poems when they get married. Crying parents, brothers and sisters, etc. Although I cried, it represented good luck.