I wish you will meet a real master soon. Before meeting a master, please refer to my understanding and approach to fate:
My friend, fate is very mysterious. , ordinary people cannot see through it, and it is not easy to understand.
A person's success is inseparable from talent, hard work, and opportunities.
For an individual, what he can control is the second factor, effort.
Effort includes two aspects, one is the accumulation of abilities, and the other is the adjustment of emotional intelligence.
Ability is the foundation of your success and the internal basis. Emotional intelligence can make you have a higher vision, have more fortune, and can affect external conditions.
Ability and emotional intelligence are both indispensable.
There is a saying that I feel very good about, "Character determines destiny, attitude determines altitude." This sentence mainly talks about the role of emotional intelligence.
I believe that there must be experts in the world who can see destiny clearly and foresee the future.
If you find this expert and ask him to save your life, if he really sees your destiny clearly and tells you his destiny, and you adjust your behavior accordingly, then your destiny will be inaccurate. , then "fate cannot be called destiny", then he and you are going against nature.
If he tells you that you have made adjustments, it is destiny for him to tell you. After you make adjustments, you will definitely be in line with the destiny.
So, whether he saves your life must be an arrangement of fate. In other words, if you don’t find him, fate will not happen. If you find him, he saves your life, you Do it and destiny happens.
If he saves your life, it’s because fate tells him; if he doesn’t save your life, it’s because fate tells him.
In this world, you must have heard a lot of life-saving stories, so have you noticed such a similarity: "That is, these masters come to the door and tell them themselves." They all take the initiative to tell people’s fortunes.
In other words, it’s fate that tells these experts, tell this mortal, he must follow our rules.”
The point I want to make comes out: "There must be experts who can see destiny clearly, but there must be no experts who can change destiny, because he can't do it, and what he does is also destined. He only executes rather than plans.”
If this master really exists, there must be very few of them, maybe only a few in the world. So how do you know he is an expert? If you know he is an expert, how can you guarantee that you can meet him? Even if you saw it, how could you be sure he would tell you? Don’t forget, if you have this master in your life, he will take the initiative to find you. If you don’t have him in your life, your search for him will be in vain. He won’t tell you. Even if he does, if you do as he is told, then you will definitely do it. Will go into destiny.
So, my friend, just be content with the dawn. Regarding talent, hard work and opportunities, all you can grasp is the second one - hard work.
Strive to improve your abilities and improve your emotional intelligence.