It sounds specious and makes sense. It is true that the older generation used some ways of their old ideas when raising themselves or their children's fathers, and we have all grown up. But for many old methods of taking care of children, it is really not scientific enough, and may even hurt the growth and development of children.
In fact, the parenting experience of the older generation can't be completely wrong, but many times it really doesn't apply to the present situation.
Have a neighbor friend. When she was confined, her mother-in-law came to wait on her confinement. At first, it was a little unpleasant. Regardless of who is right and who is wrong. It's really bad for children to express their opinions.
The thing is, after the neighbor's baby was born, because of the neighbor's physical reasons, the child didn't have enough breast milk to drink, so the neighbor and her husband discussed feeding the child in a mixed way, that is, feeding the child with breast milk and milk powder. But the neighbor grandma insisted on not feeding the baby milk powder. She thought that the baby would get angry when drinking milk powder, so she gave her rice paste in the second month.
At first, my neighbors were talking about my mother-in-law, but I was locked in my room. I didn't see my mother-in-law really feeding the baby rice paste in the hall. Later, the baby was born about 10 days, and suddenly became particularly fond of crying, scaring the neighbors. Later, he took the baby to the hospital. What does the doctor say the baby feeds every day? The neighbors say it's breast milk and milk powder. The doctor said he was sure he hadn't fed any other food. The baby has severe flatulence, of course, he can't stop crying.
At this time, my grandmother was embarrassed to say that she had fed the baby rice paste. The doctor said it's best not to give the baby rice paste first, because the digestive function is not very good. It is recommended to feed with mixed breast milk or milk powder. Although the neighbor's mother-in-law still insisted that she raised her child like that, she never secretly fed her granddaughter rice paste again.
Of course, every generation has different ideas, and young people should not blame the elderly too much. However, if you encounter some ways that are not good for your baby, you can still guide the elderly to correct them in the right way. Let's talk about some wrong ways to bring a baby that need to be stopped!
One, the baby is still very young, so give her a shit and pee.
Some elderly people may think that taking a shit can reduce the baby's wearing diapers and prevent the baby's buttocks from breaking out in a rash. Of course, there are still some elderly people who are more economical and think that defecating and urinating can save a lot of money on diapers. Some mothers-in-law even think that they use diapers because they are lazy.
However, in fact, with the development of science and technology, as long as you buy diapers suitable for your baby, you won't get a rash. In addition, it is not good for babies to urinate with shit. Adults will always hiss when urinating with shit, which will make the baby form a habit and lead the baby to accept the signal to urinate instead of defecating by himself. In the long run, it may also lead to the phenomenon of wetting the bed when the baby grows up!
Second, give the baby salt too early.
Some old people think that when the baby starts to eat rice paste and porridge, he will start to add salt to the complementary food, thinking that the baby will have strength after eating salt.
In fact, at this time, the baby's kidney is not fully developed, and the renal function needs to be improved. If the baby starts to eat salt when he is very young, it may increase the burden on the baby's kidneys and heart, and it will also make the baby's taste heavier, which will have some influence on the taste buds and eating habits in the future.
Of course, there will be some differences in the concept of bringing a baby to the older generation, and some will even endanger the healthy growth of the baby. As a junior, the first thing is for the baby's health. Of course, in life, we should also know communication skills, take care of the face of the elderly, and also take care of the baby's health, so that the elderly can gradually accept the modern scientific way of taking care of the baby in a more suitable way.