Parenting is the most important thing for modern parents. Modern parents always have such an idea that they can't let their children l
Parenting is the most important thing for modern parents. Modern parents always have such an idea that they can't let their children lose at the starting line. So do you know how to raise children? How much do you know about parenting? What help can comprehensive parenting knowledge give us? Let's study together.
Train children's thinking in middle school.
For middle-class children, they have a strong sense of action and thinking ability. Children in the middle class can talk and remember while doing actions, but the logical thinking at this time is not perfect.
When they master the concept of physical objects, they can sum up their main features, especially their functional features.
Parents can often play with their children? Wrong number? Games, as parents say? Horse-drawn cart? Children talk? Yes, a horse-drawn cart? ,? Did you throw away the fruit? ,? Wrong, fruit is edible? .
For the children in the middle class, counting is just the beginning, but at this time, the children's language expression ability is improving rapidly, and parents can help their children with language learning.
Parents can also tell targeted stories to their children. For timid children, tell more stories of brave victory; Tell lonely stories to selfish children. Parents telling stories is more important than teachers, because parents can choose stories according to their children's personality and carry out effective education.
It should also be noted that parents should tell stories in vivid language. Some parents' stories are well chosen, but they are not reading, but reading one by one according to the words in the book.
Because children are unfamiliar with written language, and some even don't understand it, it is boring to listen. It is best to use pictographs and phonograms in the process of speaking, and dance rhythmically when necessary. Only when speaking with Tianjin flavor can children listen with relish.
Cultivation of children's sensory ability in middle school
The physiological organs of middle school children are fragile, so parents must always pay attention, but at this time parents can train their children's various perceptual abilities in a positive way.
1. Children's hearing can be trained consciously and planned, and their hearing should be measured regularly at ordinary times for early treatment and prevention.
2. Let the children gradually identify: red, yellow, orange, green, sky blue, blue, purple and other colors, gradually choose the color by name, and say the name by color.
3. Teach children to touch with their hands to distinguish the thickness, hardness, weight, roughness and smoothness of objects.
4. By playing hide-and-seek or looking for things, cultivate children to gradually distinguish up and down, front and back, left and right. If the same object is placed in different spatial positions, let the children point out the direction. Another example is to arrange dolls one after another, one after the other, one left and one right, and so on.
Parents can cultivate their children's sense of time by leading them to do some observation records.
6. You can also help children master through stories and fairy tales? Once upon a time? A long time? 、? What happened afterwards? 、? Start? 、? End? The vocabulary is equal.
Let children have a sense of humor from an early age
Humor is emotional intelligence? A very important part. Most children with a sense of humor are cheerful and lively, so they are often more liked by everyone, and their interpersonal relationships are much better than those without a sense of humor.
In America, people think that humor is not only a lovely character, but also a valuable quality. Therefore, in the eyes of many American parents, cultivating children's sense of humor is also an organic part of quality education.
First, create a humorous atmosphere and space, and infect children with parents' humor.
Letting children live in an environment with a sense of humor is the best way to cultivate children's sense of humor. Parents who live with their children every day are in the best position to sow the seeds of humor for their children.
For example, parents can flexibly use humorous methods to give advice, suggestions or criticisms to their children when they are at a loss and encounter setbacks and remind them how to do or stop certain behaviors of their children.
Humor can replace criticism that lacks intimacy, tasteless reminders and unnecessary complaints. It brings freshness and interest to children, and makes them accept the guidance of their parents happily and effectively.
Second, be confident and have a positive and optimistic attitude.
The psychological basis of humor is optimistic and positive attitude. It is necessary to cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks, not afraid of failure, and to see the positive side of things instead of pessimism.
Third, rich language skills.
Having a rich vocabulary helps to express humorous ideas. Poor vocabulary and poor language expression ability will not achieve humorous effect.
Parents can usually tell their children more humorous stories, witty stories and brain teasers. To train children's thinking agility and enrich their vocabulary.
Fourth, pay attention to the cultivation of dribs and drabs in daily life.
The cultivation of children's sense of humor can be carried out in daily life at any time. For example, let children tell riddles and jokes before and after meals; Let children make up an interesting sentence for something or a plot; Catch others' humorous words and comment immediately.
Once a child's sense of humor is formed, it will have an important impact on his life. Children with a sense of humor are mostly cheerful and lively, often more pleasing to everyone, and their interpersonal relationships are much better than those without a sense of humor.
Humor can also help children better cope with the pressure and pain in life and study, so humorous children are often happier, smarter, can finish their studies more easily, and even have a happy life.
Cultivate children to be polite from an early age
A rude, rude and disrespectful person can hardly gain the respect and friendly cooperation of his colleagues in his work. It is not easy to gain friendship and self-confidence in life, so people often lack happiness. In order to make children grow into successful people, parents should make their children polite and friendly from an early age.
Let children be polite, the earliest thing is to let children learn to be peers? Say hello? . Although greetings are simple, it is not easy for children to form a habit and speak out on their own initiative. If children take the initiative to call people, or use civilized language, parents should praise them in time to let him know that polite children are loved by everyone.
In daily life, children should be taught to respect their elders, especially the elderly. Parents should set an example in this respect. If parents are disrespectful to their elders, it is impossible for children to learn to respect the elderly.
When you take your children to other people's homes, you should educate them not to talk loudly, not to stare at the candy handed over by the host, and to get along well with the host's children. When you are a guest, don't pull other people's drawers, rummage through other people's cabinets, and don't fight in the host's bedroom, especially in bed.
Keep order and be polite in public. When taking the bus, if someone gets up and gives up his seat, be sure to let the children say thank you. If the person who offered your seat is still standing when you get off the bus, you should say hello and let that person sit back.
Some young parents, after getting on the bus with their children in their arms, saw someone give up their seats and sat down without saying a word. This gives their children the impression that someone should stand up after getting on the bus, and if no one stands up, they will cry.
In public places, children should be taught not to speak loudly and form the habit of calmly answering and expressing opinions.
Politeness is manifested in observing all kinds of social morality. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents' attitudes and behaviors towards others often affect their children's attitudes and behaviors towards others in the future.
In addition, parents' attitude towards their children will also affect their future behavior. For example, parents are rude, children are often restless, parents don't respect children, and children often don't respect others.
For the sake of children's future happiness, it is very important to educate children to be educated and polite.
The eight-character principle of cultivating children's good behavior habits
lead by example
Parents can't expect their children to talk about public health by spitting and throwing garbage everywhere, or teachers can't ask their children to beat and scold. Adults around children are selfish, so there will be no kind and loving children? This is the power of example.
As parents and teachers, we must understand that children's behavior habits are formed by acquired learning. Adults set an example to demonstrate good behavior, and children's chances of learning bad behavior will be greatly reduced, or even if bad behavior occurs, it is easier to correct it.
Give priority to praise
Some parents said:? My children are naughty and active, and they don't concentrate on anything. Let him learn calligraphy and raise his son. Some said:? My child is timid and shy, so let him learn martial arts to exercise his courage? .
Art and martial arts have their own strengths. The most important thing is to understand that every child has an innate temperament, either extroverted or shy. Temperament is not good or bad, and a person's advantages are often a person's shortcomings.
Therefore, parents and teachers should not swim against the current. The correct way is to find out what children are good at and interested in. On this basis, praise encourages children to make progress, and gradually guides children to play their strengths and correct their shortcomings. Imagine a child who doesn't like being praised. Only when he has confidence can he have the courage to try something he is not good at.
It must also be emphasized that every little progress of a child needs to be praised in time and in a big way, so that he can realize the importance of doing so and get the attention of adults, which is very important in the process of a child's growth.
Conclusion: From the above description, I think you have some knowledge of parenting. There are a lot of parenting knowledge, so I won't describe them here, but children are playful by nature. As parents, we can't put too much pressure on our children just because we want to improve their grades.