As the upstairs said, gold is not necessarily a blessing, but mainly depends on whether your horoscope matches. If your husband uses water, you can help him. If your husband's horoscope is weak and his life is dominated by water, and the moon can't help him, you will be his lucky star. If your husband is strong, his life is dominated by fire, and he gets the moon, then you will be his lucky star. Everything has its two sides.
In short, you can't, but you can draw a conclusion by looking at your eight characters.
I wish you husband and wife a hundred years of harmony and endless happiness.
For reference only, gather good gardening.