Personally, I think it is not enough or accurate to describe you with slag. He is very close to several girls and chats with you every day, which actually shows that he probably just regards you as a spare tire. I don't think it is realistic to say how much he likes you. This kind of person is the kind of fake central air conditioner, who has an affair with many girls in the name of central air conditioning.
He enjoyed the ambiguous process in it. Therefore, to judge whether he is scum, you can judge if you think about it carefully. On the surface, the boys chasing you must be very interested in you. All the same. But you can secretly observe her relationship with other girls when chasing you, or understand his usual behavior with the opposite sex and his previous love history.
It helps your judgment. The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature When a person's attitude towards feelings is irresponsible, every relationship is likely to end in the other person's injury. Moreover, after the end of a relationship, this kind of love rat usually throws himself into the next relationship without interval.
That is to say, seamless connection, the damage caused by the last relationship has no effect on them, and the only thing that is sad in the end is you who have been hurt by them. The best way to judge this kind of love rat is to ask him about his past love history. The questions here include asking yourself and asking people around you (both are indispensable! )。
By comparing these people's statements, we can infer his attitude towards feelings, such as how each relationship ends and how long it is between two relationships. We can also analyze his views and attitudes towards feelings by exploring the concept of love. Here, I suggest a more subtle way to avoid being detected by love rat and lying to you.