Ladies' sign: Gui You (Golden Year) is short of time for the Wuwu (Fire Moon) Jiazi (Golden Day).
Refer to your above birthday:
First, the first year of marriage for men and women is auspicious! Men's lives are "gold" and women's lives are "gold"; At present, when a "golden" woman marries a "golden" man, their life span is the same!
Second, the year of birth of married men and women, most afraid of committing "heaven and earth rush." If the difference in life expectancy between men and women is six years, that is! At present, you two have the same time, so there is no such thing!
Third, the zodiac that is unfavorable to marriage
1, the genus is in conflict: in the afternoon, rats and children are in conflict, ugly cows are not in conflict with sheep, yin tigers are in conflict with monkeys, hairy rabbits are in conflict with chickens, dragons are in conflict with dogs, and snakes are in conflict with pigs.
2, the genus is harmful: rats do not harm sheep, ugly cows harm afternoon horses, tigers harm snakes, rabbits harm dragons, monkeys harm pigs, and chickens harm dogs.
3. Mutual punishment: pika punishment, snake monkey punishment, ugly cattle and sheep punishment, dragon dragon punishment, afternoon horse punishment, unitary chicken punishment, pig punishment.
When men and women get married, there is also a saying that it is harmful to avoid raising the year; At present, the annual branch of men is "unitary", that is, the zodiac belongs to "chicken"; The female year branch is "unitary" and is also "chicken" in the zodiac; There is no conflict and harm between the two, but there is mutual punishment. According to the ancient theory, it is incomparable.
There are two main problems in men's and women's marriage. One is that the zodiac does not match, and the other is that the eight characters do not match. The so-called disharmony of the zodiac refers to the fact that the marriage parties are in opposition, hurting each other, punishing each other, resisting each other, or robbing each other.
What is mutual punishment? Punishment means that punishment interferes with each other and is incompatible with each other. According to the book of destiny, there are three situations in which people punish each other in the twelve branches: that is, the son meets his mother and is punished (also known as rough punishment; Yin, Ji and Shen meet, which is called the second punishment (also known as the punishment without kindness); When there are ugly, ugly and embarrassing experiences, it is called three punishments (also called leaning on the situation). In the morning and afternoon, Youhai committed suicide. Because it has been punished, only the "sea" has not been punished; At the end of Chen's ugliness, there is a punishment for Chen's ugliness, and only "Chen" has no punishment; Meridian unitary, there are sons and daughters who are punished, but only "noon" and "unitary" are not punished; According to the theory of five elements, "Chen" is the storehouse of earth, "noon" is the flourishing of fire, "You" is the flourishing of gold, and "Hai" is the flourishing of water. Each kind is too vigorous, and too much is a disaster, which is self-punishment! So find out the internal relationship of the five elements here, so don't worry!
We know that it is the respect of the six families, and finally the inferiority of the six families. Among the six hexagrams of gossip, there are three talents: heaven, earth, man and yin and yang. The same is true of heavenly stems and earthly branches in the four pillars. The sky is dry and sunny, the earth is nourishing this yin and here, and people are between heaven and earth. Therefore, the heavenly stem is Tianyuan, the earthly branch is Yuan Di, and the earthly branch's son is Renyuan. The relationship among heaven, earth and human beings has mutual development, mutual restriction, mutual help and mutual system. One, two or three heavenly stems are hidden in the twelve branches. For example, there are three heavenly stems: Jin Xin, Ding Huo and Wu Tu. There are three heavenly stems at the end, namely, ethyl wood, native soil and Ding Huo. In this case, it is the original gas, the new golden rule, the original gas! Is bullying the weak! Therefore, it is called the punishment of leaning on the situation. So find out the internal relationship of the five elements here, so don't worry! I think the ancient theoretical basis is insufficient! If you understand it this way, you can get married!
In fact, the essence of the incompatibility of the zodiac is the role of the five elements in punishment and punishment. Therefore, the zodiac does not match, but it is still incompatible with the five elements. The zodiac doesn't match, must I not get married?
It doesn't have to be like this. Because the zodiac is just a word in the birthday, that is, the annual branch, which represents the foundation of marriage. Of course, the foundation of marriage is very important, just like a small tree. If the foundation is not good, it will affect its growth. But the foundation can also change with the growth of small trees, and sometimes it is not decisive.
Fourth, in marriage, the decisive factor is the comprehensive factors such as marital palace. Marriage palace can also be called spouse palace, which is a Japanese branch. So sometimes, although the zodiac signs are incompatible, if the marriage position is compatible, or other columns are compatible, or taboos are appropriate, or auspicious year is compatible, the harm of the incompatibility of the zodiac signs can be offset or alleviated, and we can barely get along.
At present, the male spouse palace (Japanese branch) is "ugly" and belongs to "earth"; Women's daily branch is "Zi" and belongs to "Water". The spouses' palaces of men and women are related to each other. The male "Xin" was born last month, and the female "A" gave birth to the noon moon and the five elements of "water", so the favorite gods of both sides are the same relationship between "water" and "water" (that is, equality between men and women)! So from this perspective, the marriage halls of both sides still need to be considered!
Therefore, in comparison, the harmfulness of the zodiac is 50% weaker, while the harmfulness of the wedding palace is 50% stronger. Therefore, just because the zodiac doesn't match, we can conclude that marriage is unhappy, but we can't completely conclude that we can't get married. Therefore, the incompatibility of the zodiac only refers to the disharmony between the two parties in the atmosphere of two birth years, so it is general, extensive, not specific and not absolute. It just means that this kind of marriage is not happy enough, and it is impossible to judge that two people can't get married simply because the zodiac doesn't match.
Therefore, the inconsistency of the zodiac can only show that the marriage foundation is not good and the marriage and love process may not be smooth and happy. Some differences can also be alleviated or resolved through adjustment efforts the day after tomorrow.
So what should be done to alleviate or resolve the misfortune of this zodiac marriage?
Strictly speaking, it is impossible to completely resolve the misfortune of the zodiac marriage. But it can be properly adjusted and improved, and it can be transformed into a good one. The adjustment method is as follows:
First, try to avoid it. It is the wisest thing to take precautions before they happen. When looking for a lover, if you find that it belongs to aggression, injury, punishment or robbery, you should try to avoid it. Otherwise, after love or marriage, due to the different gas fields of the zodiac, it will bring many unnecessary contradictions and conflicts to both parties, affect feelings or lead to breakup or divorce.
The second is customs clearance and neutralization. The principle of neutralization is actually to build a bridge between two incompatible zodiac signs and make them smooth. For example, when meridians collide, wood can pass customs and wood can turn into aquatic fire, so the two impulses can stop each other. Therefore, you can have a tiger child, wear a tiger-shaped zodiac ornament and plant some flowers to resolve the conflict. Other incompatible zodiac signs can also adopt this neutralization method according to their five elements of conflict, mutual harm and mutual punishment. For example, ugliness does not collide and is cleared by gold; Shen Yin, Shuiguan, Tuyouguan, Shuiguan, Customs, Muguan, Chenxuguan, Jinguan and so on.
The third is feng shui adjustment. The principle of feng shui adjustment is to comprehensively adjust feng shui according to the incompatibility of the two zodiac signs and the eight-character taboo, from the aspects of living environment orientation, material decoration, furniture collocation, bed placement, lighting adjustment, kitchen and bathroom renovation, color layout and so on. And use the environmental atmosphere to coordinate the popularity of the two zodiac signs and resolve the conflict between them. Geomantic omen is the most effective way to improve the incompatibility of the zodiac, but it involves many aspects such as the zodiac, eight characters, geomantic omen, five elements and so on, so it is more professional and complicated, and it needs to ask experts for help.
In fact, any adjustment is to adjust your heart and let the situation follow your heart. If we improve our understanding of the marriage of the zodiac, we can actively seek good fortune and avoid evil, and I believe we can also avoid, reduce or resolve the harm caused by the disharmony of the zodiac in reality.
After the above analysis, I think you can get married. As for the future, it is up to you to create a better life together. Create a harmonious living space! Wish you all the best!
The above viewpoints are for your reference!