(1) get married.
Qi was founded in Chu and married. Historical Records: Biography of Lizi Gan Mao
Talented people and beautiful women can't be detained, and smart women can't be untied. Everything is predictable, but this charade of marriage is the most difficult to guess. In Qing Dynasty, Li Yu's Naihetian Tiaomei and Tian Lanfang discussed Tian's funeral: "Tian died before marriage. Yan's (grandson's) parents turned sharply and were buried after their ancestors. "
(2) According to the old custom, before marriage, both men and women exchange Geng posts to see if the eight characters match, which is called "marriage".
If you want to talk about Yu Lang's personality, ask your in-laws to ask the matchmaker to send it to your sister at once. Who should I give it to? Or will my sister get married by fortune telling? Children's the legend of heroes: Chapter 26
I went to get married that day and she knew that when I came back, she was sitting at home waiting for me. When she saw me, she asked, "Are you married?" Bing Xin's Dong Er girl
Edit this ancient marriage in China.
In ancient times, there were ways to judge whether a marriage was happy or not according to the animal sign of both men and women. In fact, this is a misunderstanding of the five elements and eight characters, because in ancient times, when the matchmaker introduced marriage, the woman used it as a code word for agreeing to marriage and disagreeing with it. If the woman agrees to this marriage, it is said to be a match. If not, let the matchmaker tell her that it is incompatible. Maybe the female or male genus is not the one mentioned. Because the Book of Changes suddenly fell into a trough after liberation for various reasons, many people who know a little about fur take the ancient custom of "marrying by genus" and "marrying by genus" as the standard for choosing marriage. Up to now, many people still think that they can't get married because they are not suitable, which is actually incorrect. It is a misunderstanding of the ancient "matchmaker system".
It is a marriage code that ancient young men and women thought marriage was appropriate or not.
For example, the woman herself may be a cow. If she agrees to the man's marriage, she will report to the matchmaker that her zodiac is that the mouse matches the man's zodiac "sheep". If she doesn't agree, she will say that she is a dog and the man's zodiac "sheep" is the same. This is also because there is a saying that there is a nominal age, and this is how the marriage system came into being. Not really incompatible, can't get married. Only people who don't understand the Book of Changes and the marriage system will think that they can't get married because they can't get along.
If the man's condition improves and the woman agrees to the previous proposal, it can be solved. The woman can bring blue velvet crystal, and the man can bring red bamboo stone.
Therefore, modern youth marriage should not be separated because of mismatch.
Animals like mice are sheep, horses, rabbits and chickens. Mouse: Yulong, monkey, Niu Daji, others are the second best. Animals similar to cattle are dragons, horses, sheep, dogs and rabbits. Cattle: When it comes to rats, snakes and chickens, they are lucky, followed by other animals. Tigers belong to snakes and monkeys. Tiger: When it comes to horses and dogs, it means good luck. Other zodiac signs are rat, ox, dragon, chicken and horse. Rabbit: When it comes to sheep, dogs and pigs, we are lucky, followed by other animals. Animals related to dragons are dogs, cows, dragons and rabbits. Dragon: Speaking of mice, monkeys and chickens, the other zodiac signs are tigers, monkeys and pigs. Snake: When it comes to cows and chickens, they are lucky, followed by other animals. Animals like horses are mice, cows, rabbits and horses. Ma: When it comes to tigers, sheep and dogs, they are lucky, followed by other animals. Animals like sheep are mice, cows and dogs. Sheep: When it comes to rabbits, horses and pigs, they are lucky, followed by other animals. Animals like monkeys are tigers, snakes and pigs. Monkey: You will be lucky when you meet a mouse, and so will other animals. Animals similar to chickens are rabbits, chickens and dogs. Chicken: When you meet cows, dragons and snakes, you will be lucky, and so will others. Animals similar to dogs are cows, dragons, sheep and chickens. Dog: When it comes to tigers, rabbits and horses, other animals are the second best. Animals like pigs are snakes, pigs and monkeys. Pig: When it comes to sheep and rabbits, all other animals are lucky.
Edit the detailed explanation of the eight-character marriage in this paragraph
Because everyone's birth has four parts: year, month, day and time, each part accounts for one word, and the four parts make up eight words, so it is called "eight characters". Xing Ming said that both men and women must be harmonious before they can get married, so as not to interfere with each other or hinder the family fortune after marriage.
Then, according to the zodiac signs of birthdates and Ganzao (the man) and Kunzao (the woman), the Yin-Yang teacher who eats the red pen of Mingtang writes the identification (such as "ugly harmony"), and then according to the auspicious day of the ecliptic and the direction of Xishen, chooses the wedding date and what zodiac signs to avoid, and writes them on the red paper passbook, which is called. This is an old marriage certificate.
Marriage is also called "Animal Year" and "Eight Characters", which was called "Buji" in ancient times. At the beginning, the two sides agreed to talk about marriage, and "marriage" was necessary. In the old society, people pinned the happiness and misfortune of men and women on their fate. If "time and fate" don't match and everything is fine, they can't get married.
When getting married, the woman first writes her daughter's eight-year-old character as a "Geng Cambodia sticker". The "eight characters" are the stems and branches of the year, month, day and time of birth (collectively called heavenly stems and earthly branches, that is, the heavenly stems A, C, E, G and N match the ugliness, fur, IV, Wei, You and Hai of the earthly branches to form 60 groups representing the year, month and day), sealed with red paper and given to the man for weighing. The man will stick the woman's penis under the incense burner in front of the stove. If there are no unlucky things such as breaking bowls and scratching flowers within three days, please ask the fortune teller to get married. Marriage depends on the zodiac and fate. The genus is mouse, ugly cow, silver tiger, hairy rabbit, dragon, snake, afternoon horse, sheep, monkey, pheasant, dog and porcupine. Among the twelve zodiac signs, the following zodiac signs can't get married, commonly known as "broken marriage". The lyrics are as follows:
Since ancient times, white horses have been afraid of green cattle, and sheep and rats have rested when they meet;
The snake sees the tiger as a knife, and the golden rooster sees the dog cry.
The dragon meets the jade rabbit in the clouds, and the pig and ape are not at the end;
If the genus is consistent, it depends on whether the genus is compatible. Life is the five elements, namely wood, fire, earth, gold and water. The five elements are: wood fire, fire earth, golden water and aquatic wood; The five elements are: Mutuke, Tukeshui, Shuihuoke, Huojinke and Jin Kemu. The fate of the five elements is determined by the heavenly stems of birth, that is, the gold in the East, the gold in the West, the ice in the South, the water in the North, and the Wuji soil in the center. If the male Jiazi was born in a year, it was a wooden fate, and the female Chen Bing was born in a fire of life, then the wood can make a fire and the fate can get married; For example, a man was born in Chen Wunian, which belongs to earth, and a woman was born in Yiyou, which belongs to wood, and wood can conquer earth. This is an example of taboo.
In this paragraph, the methods of editing ancient and modern marriage are introduced.
At all times, there are many ways to get married. Give a few examples:
(A) Zodiac Marriage Law
The law holds that a man and a woman should not get married if they punish, hurt and conflict each other in the birth year, but if they are born together, they should get married. If ugliness is punished, ugly people are not suitable to marry people born in ugly years; If children don't hurt each other, children born that year should not marry people born that year; Meridians collide with each other, so children should not marry people born at noon; Yin and the sea are in harmony, and those born in Yin should marry those born in the sea. This method is obviously one-sided, rough and inadequate. It simply starts from the annual support of the four pillars of both sides and ignores the overall cooperation of their destiny. ?
(2) The God-Evil Marriage Law
This method is represented by the marriage law of ghosts and gods in Lv Cai in the Tang Dynasty, and marriage is based on ghosts and gods of both men and women. This law has long been controversial in the field of life science. Zhang Nan in the Ming Dynasty, in particular, refuted his pain and said, "Only the number of men and women's lives is called marriage, which brings out the best in each other. It is absurd to take Dr. Tiancai as the first marriage, the wandering soul as the middle marriage, and the five ghosts and fugitives as the next marriage. Encore men and women only live for two years, who can talk about marriage? If there is a reason, then all the people who discuss marriage in the world choose the first and second marriage, and choose the next one to give up. The method is simple and easy, and is suitable for all widowed women and widowed men. Honey, why are there orphan frost patients in the future? Although it was decided in ancient times, it was also due to the uncertainty of marriage negotiators. However, the ceremony of marriage and the end of human nature cannot be sloppy. What is the reason? But looking at men's lives, which are on a par with each other and rob money, we must choose the life of a woman who is injured and the life of a woman who eats heavily. If a woman's life hurts an official and eats too much, she should choose a man's life to match her shoulders and rob her of her money. How can this excellent marriage have Lv Cai's theory that three marriages have no roots and one's marriage has no foundation? Lv Cai's fallacy is not convincing enough. "But a rebuttal is a rebuttal. Today, there are still some people who criticize the method of Shandong cuisine, and there is still some accuracy in some aspects, which shows that this method is more or less worth studying. Although there is some truth in Zhang Nan's method of matching food with injuries, it is too simple and rough, and needs to be supplemented and improved.
(3) Others
There are also methods such as matching the annual columns or daily columns of both sides (suitable for health and harmony, avoid rushing), matching the husband and wife stars (positive wealth with officials, partial wealth with seven kills), and matching the years and lives (suitable for sounds).
(iv) General introduction
Both methods have some advantages, but they are not perfect. It is precisely because of the defects of the above marriage rules, coupled with the limitation of the technical level of those who approve marriage, couples who are not suitable for cooperation are often tied together, while couples who are suitable for marriage are ruthlessly separated. The tragedy caused by the wrong marriage will follow the fate of the Lord through the painful marriage journey. Can you treat it as a joke? ! ?
Edit the principles of the perfect marriage method in this paragraph.
Based on the overall combination of the fate of men and women, numerology is the criterion. Under the guidance of this principle, let's try our best to find the perfect marriage method.
purpose
The purpose of marriage is to make both parties as lucky as possible to avoid misfortune and improve their marital fortune to the greatest extent. To achieve this goal, we must rely on reasonable marriage methods. As mentioned above, the essence of marriage is the intimate combination of the five elements of men and women. In order to make marriage have a good numerology effect, it is necessary to make this combination of the five elements of the human body beneficial to both sides. The five elements of qi are invisible and intangible. How can we judge whether it is beneficial or harmful? This can only be analyzed from the overall situation of the fate of both sides.
standard
From the perspective of numerology, marriage should try to meet the following standards:
(a), after the fate of the two sides, it will not hurt the other side in the fate of the other side.
(2) One party's life is best to avoid immortals and become the favorite immortals of the other party's life; Second best, envy of one's fate can be restrained by the fate of the other.
(3) The power of the favorite god in one side's life is insufficient, while the five elements in the other side's life can just benefit it.