The "Book of Changes" consists of three parts: "Lianshan Yi", "Guizang Yi" and "Zhouyi". Today, only "Zhouyi" has been handed down. It is the first of the group of scriptures and has influenced countless people. The thoughts and actions of sages and great men are also a huge ideological wealth for us today. Its eight secrets are: great desires are easy to lose life, great thoughts are easy to lose love, great joy is easy to make mistakes, great fear is easy to lose integrity, and great fear is easy to lose integrity. It is easy to lose one's morality when one is drunk, one can lose one's appearance when one is sad, one can easily lose one's composure when one is frightened, and one can easily lose one's etiquette when one is angry.
1. Big desires can easily lead to loss of life. We must learn to control and restrain our desires. It is a good thing for people to have desires. Desire can promote one's struggle and progress. But desire should not be too big. Too much desire will bring disaster to oneself, make one's mind get lost, and do some extreme things, which can easily cost one's life.
2. It is easy to lose love if you think too much. If you think too much, you will easily lose your love. When someone is in love and thinks too much, they will become overly sensitive, suspicious, and anxious, which will affect the relationship between two people. Too much suspicion will destroy the relationship between two people. trust between each other, especially some girls are too sensitive in love, making things out of nothing, and eventually the two parties part ways.
3. It is easy to make a mistake when overjoyed. When people are too happy, they tend to say inappropriate things, so you should control your emotions and mouth when you are happy. Misfortune comes from your mouth, and you should be careful what you say.
4. Great fear of losing integrity. People will lose their principles when they are too fearful. Fear will make people do many inappropriate behaviors, so keep your emotions calm and don't be afraid.
5. Being drunk can easily lead to loss of morality. Although alcohol is a good thing, when you are drunk, you lose your mind and it is easy to do immoral things. You will not be able to remember them afterwards. Drinking will make things worse when it is important.
6. It is easy to lose face in great sorrow. Being immersed in sadness all day can easily make your appearance look older and make you unattractive, so you should face life with a positive and optimistic attitude and always smile.
7. Easily lose one's composure when startled. People will lose their usual posture when they are greatly frightened, and it is important to make a fool of themselves in front of outsiders, so you must exercise your courage.
8. Being angry can easily lead to rudeness. When you are angry, you will be impulsive and do many unethical and rude behaviors, so you should control your temper and don't let your anger go to your head easily.
These are the eight secrets. If we do them in our lives, it will be very good. It will definitely make our lives more successful and more admired by others.