Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan never officially announced their marital status. Until February 23rd of 12, a girl took a photo of kissing Gao Shengyuan on the social platform. This "in name only" marriage finally showed its true colors. Interestingly, many netizens wondered, "Is Zhou Xun married? When did it get married? " Although everyone is familiar with Zhou Xun, her sense of marriage is really low. Everyone who knows Brother Xun knows that she is low-key and understates her work. But for this relationship, is this the identity code that Brother Xun wants? The existence of marriage is so weak that everyone says that Zhou Xun is "single in marriage". But during the first marriage, Zhou Xun was not in this state. On the third day after the wedding, the two set off for their honeymoon. At that time, Zhou Xun took a selfie with Gao Shengyuan, holding hands along the way, showing great love. Give a sweet kiss when you get the marriage certificate. Shooting magazines together. Zhou Xun took her husband to work and they dated at public expense. I was photographed having dinner with friends, and it was reported that Zhou Xun was pregnant.
But from 20 17, the intersection of two people is getting less and less. Zhou Xun's birthday, Gao Shengyuan is getting more and more low-key, but Zhou Xun has no response. Gao Shengyuan's sense of existence became weaker and weaker in the later period of marriage, and I think it was also quite painful for Zhou Xun. Zhou Xun once mentioned in the program that she is very dependent on her partner. "Say good morning in the morning, say good night at night, and I will be anxious if I don't say it for a day." . Asked to what extent he would depend on each other in his life, Zhou Xun replied without hesitation, "Without him, he would be dead.". It can be seen that Zhou Xun is a very affectionate person and a high-profile and vigorous lover.
Now 46 years old, she has always believed that love is supreme. For 27 years, Zhou Xun was like a child looking for something he loved. /kloc-When she was 0/9 years old, she fell in love with the rock singer Dou Peng. Young Zhou Xun went north to pursue love despite his family's opposition. When I fell in love with Li, I declared that "Li has satisfied my fantasy about men". After spending time with Li Daqi, Zhou Xun specially wrote a song called "Daqi" for him. The lyrics are: "We want to be together, together every day". At the Oscar ceremony, Zhou Xun also expressed Li Daqi excitedly in front of everyone. Even after her adolescence, her madness for love has never changed. How can such a loveless and unhappy woman in born to love stand this state of "single in marriage"?
There are many people who are introverted, reserved or independent in love, but it is definitely not Zhou Xun. After being with Gao Shengyuan, Zhou Xun became less and less like himself. Maybe that's why she chose to divorce. In this case, both husband and wife certainly have their own responsibilities. The direct reason is that they hurried into marriage without solving the real contradiction at the beginning. In fact, Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan are not a good partner. The gap between two people is too big. Gao Shengyuan, a Chinese-American, first acted in the United States, and then slowly shifted his focus to the mainland. It was in this process that he got to know Zhou Xun. Zhou Xun, a southerner, has been living and working in China. Although I have traveled all over the world for work reasons, I have never lived. So geographically, there are differences between the two. This difference is not only ideological, but also directly reflected in action. Gao Shengyuan hasn't been back to China since 20 17 and has been living in the United States. When Zhou Xun is not working, she always lives in the mountains with her mother. The couple are separated. Regional differences also cause differences in their career development.
As a love supremacist, Zhou Xun didn't consider these when she got married. In fact, she is still a person who yearns for marriage. She mentioned her views on marriage when she participated in Adventure Life. She said that her parents have been together for a lifetime, so she believes that marriage must be beautiful. Therefore, naive Zhou Xun believes that as long as there is love, you can get married. But there are too many facts before us. Love and marriage are really two things.
Because there are too many practical problems in marriage, marriage will kill love, but love can't make marriage happy. Love supremacists can't afford this gap. If you don't want to bear the gap and loneliness after marriage, you must learn to adjust yourself first.