People get along with each other, not because they respect each other, but because they have the capital to respect each other, and they will be respected by each other. Excessive humility will only make the other person despise himself more. Moreover, respect is mutual, and a person's respect is called please. Therefore, no matter whether you are facing a woman or a man, no matter how much you like and love, it is very important to have a bottom line! Because the respect between people is only based on the bottom line.
2, the heart is too soft
Soft-hearted people must be kind people, but if they are too kind, they will only be considered easy to bully. Always stick to your bottom line and principles. Especially in feelings, if a woman does something that hurts her, she can choose to forgive, but if she chooses to forgive, she must pay the same price as her mistake, because only in this way can she realize the seriousness of her mistake.
I don't know how to fight back in time.
In fact, you should endure when you should, but you must never let the other side form a normal state. Timely counterattack is very important, and horizontal counterattack is more important. In short, we should convey a meaning to each other. I am not easy to bully. I forbear because the prime minister can punt in his stomach, because I want to let myself go generously, but it doesn't mean I can bully casually.
It's too easy to trust others.
Trust should be given to a trustworthy person, just as you should love a person you like, instead of giving it away casually. Maybe others will only call you stupid and gullible in your heart, which will make you even more disrespectful.
5. I don't know how to fight for my own interests in front of human feelings.
Too honest people often don't know how to fight for their own interests in front of human feelings. Even if you know that this is your own interest, you are often afraid to say it. They don't like bargaining with others. What others say is what they are. Finally, they worked hard and suffered big losses.