There is a better mode of thinking:
How to create destiny? There is a book called Self-determination. Author Huang Yuan, a famous all-rounder in Ming Dynasty. History books say that there was never a shortage of talents in the Ming Dynasty, but a generalist like Huang Yuan was rare. His creation covers all walks of life and all aspects. No matter what kind of study, as long as he wants to learn, he can learn well and master it well. He summed up his successful experience in four points and wrote a book. The name of the law is Fan, so "self-reliance" is also called "Fan Four Laws".
This book can be bought online. Find it yourself. The original work is ancient prose. If it is difficult to read, there are modern translations on the Internet.
There are also many real examples: 1, how to get a good marriage?
There are two articles on the Internet, Inducing, Sharing and Collecting the Theories and Methods of Marriage Recruitment, and Master Yin Guang said the Methods of Marriage Recruitment, both of which are real cases of successful marriage and are well worth reading.
2. How to get rich? There are also two articles for reference: "Let it go for three years" and "When my fellow initiates' work is done, I will also get a raise, and my family's annual income will increase by140,000 RMB within three weeks! 〉
3. There is also an article about occupation: A Girl's Invisible Wings, which is available online. Look for it yourself. It's very enlightening.
4. You can also use keywords such as "release induction", "chanting induction" and "reading induction" to find a large number of real success stories on the Internet, which is very shocking.