On the wedding day, the groom will get on the limousine or sedan chair and go to the woman's house to "greet the bride". There is a band in front of a limousine or sedan chair. After the bride is welcomed into the man's house, she should worship heaven and earth and her parents. After the ceremony, the newlyweds entered the bridal chamber. At this time, the man gave a banquet to entertain relatives and friends who came to congratulate him. Some places also have the habit of making trouble in the bridal chamber and listening to the wall.
2. Funeral
During the funeral, the relatives of the deceased should wear mourning clothes and wake in the mourning hall. In the ancient etiquette system of China, filial piety was divided into five grades according to the kinship with the deceased. There is also a word "five clothes" in modern Chinese to express the distance of blood relationship. Filial piety is made of white cloth.
3, drinking vigil
After dinner, some people still have the custom of drinking and vigil. On the first day of the first month, in some places, people generally do not go out. From the second day of the first month, they began to visit. When the guests come to the door, the host will put the exquisite dining tables already prepared on the table and pour wine for the New Year.
4, the fifth day of the first month
The first polder day of the New Year began in polder fields all over the country, commonly known as "opening polder". On this day, people are busy performing. There are many toys and snacks, as well as lion dances and dragon lanterns, which are very lively.
5, the seventh day of the first month
On the morning of the seventh day of the first month, every household cooks porridge with seven seasonings, such as fried fruit, fried tofu and bacon, commonly known as "Qibao soup". Hakkas believe that eating "Qibao Tang" will make a year without disease and disaster.