Because of your personality, I can see that you are a more rational person.
Love and marriage can list all the conditions in detail.
For example, love, emotion ...
Your age, experience and personality are really secondary. What you need is appropriate. Of course, I have to admit that both girls like you. This is the premise of fairness. If you have a special affection for one of them, what are you waiting for? Fall in love and get married right away.
Well, back to the original, I like it.
A girl with a family is always too romantic (I am like this, I have a say). She doesn't need a man to lead a rational, successful and quiet life, and sometimes there will be a little surprise. Her husband is always considerate, gentle, meticulous, family, first wife, second child, third ... occupation, n ... Do you think you are such a person?
Moreover, she is still a blank sheet of paper and has never been in love. All her feelings about love come from words and images, falsehood is more than truth, and her expectations for love are too high, so there is a gap with life, and she has an extremely rational husband ... which is really the source of tragedy. Although I don't want to give examples, as long as I refer to Princess Diana, I can always get a glimpse.
So, I think, which is more important? Two rational and serious people may not have passion, but they should have stability and happiness.