Your birth time: November 10, 1982, 01:00 East 8th District Standard Time
Your geographical location: 125.09 degrees east longitude and 42.58 degrees north latitude.
< p>The other party’s birth time: 02:00 East 8th District Standard Time on November 11, 1982The other party’s geographical location: 114.58 degrees east longitude and 27.07 degrees north latitude.
One, you guys The pursuit of life
⊙Rational communication is the main focus
If you become a couple, language communication with each other will be a focus. For a marriage, this has its advantages and disadvantages.
The advantage is that you will have a strong desire for verbal communication, and you hope to be able to openly exchange views with each other. Moreover, the verbal communication between you is very pleasant most of the time.
But the biggest weakness of your marriage is that the communication between you may stay more on non-emotional factors such as thinking, and the emotional communication between you is not as strong as imagined. For a love and marriage, emotional communication is even more important. Your relationship is sometimes more like a family relationship than love. You are used to talking rather than communicating emotionally.
There is nothing wrong with rationality, but in marriage, rationality alone is not sufficient. Of course, if some other factors in your marriage ensure smooth emotional communication, then this rational attitude is still very beneficial.
Second, your emotional needs
◎Uncover the secrets hidden in your heart
Your union may require you to do many things that other couples are unwilling to do things. Other couples may do these things to increase their relationship, but it doesn't matter if they don't. But for you, it is a must.
If you don't do it and let these things be shelved, not only will you not be able to make the other person feel what you are thinking, but you will not even know what you are thinking. You tend to avoid each other's exploration because you are worried that the other person will get too close and discover the deep secrets in your hearts.
The biggest danger for you is that your feelings for each other are often not loyal enough, and sometimes it is not just feelings, but you actually do things that are not loyal to each other. You always have pent-up worries and fears inside of you, which prevents you from being honest with each other.
What you have to do is: both of you must fully integrate into your relationship, find out what is happening between you and why, and go to it directly and sincerely. Face it. Don't run away, because the results of running away can only be much worse than the results if you face it honestly.
If you don’t get to the bottom of things, your relationship will leave you feeling defeated by forces you don’t understand in your life. When this repressed emotion finally reaches its limit, its outburst can be destructive. However, if you can sincerely seek understanding, you will gain tremendous wisdom and experience tremendous growth from your relationship.
Third, your communication
⊙The pleasure of collision of ideas
Your marriage is extremely valuable to your mutual development, because you There is no ideological barrier between them, and they hope to have completely smooth communication.
Many other couples may lack good communication skills on some family matters, causing marital rifts, but generally you will be able to avoid this problem very well. In fact, you will feel a strong desire for verbal communication between you. It's even possible that the reason you got together was precisely because of the collision of ideas when you first met.
Not only do you two have a very strong desire to exchange ideas and concepts with each other, but you also hope to have more contact with, get along with, and exchange views with other people. You are both willing to exchange ideas and communicate in various ways with your friends. You prefer to go out into the outside world, chat with friends and play games to enjoy a happy time, rather than being enclosed in a small world of two people.
The only thing you should be aware of is that joking and chatting, although enjoyable, are superficial, and that deep, serious communication is what is needed to maintain any successful marriage. But at this point, it's easy for you to have too much fun and refuse some profound topics. Therefore, you should have more meaningful and in-depth exchanges. If you can avoid the possible superficiality of communication, the two of you will have an extraordinary future together.
Four, your emotional interaction
⊙Share beautiful feelings
Your marriage will greatly enhance the beauty of both of you.
Compared to before the union, you pay more attention to the pursuit of beauty. You will think more about the good things in life and strive to fill your family and your work environment with good things. You will often visit places where you can find beautiful things, or you will often discuss topics about beauty and art, such as painting, poetry, and music.
In marriage, it is very easy for you to understand each other's feelings, and you can actively express your feelings and exchange each other's feelings. In fact, you tend to talk a lot about how to maintain relationships, but it's easier to talk than to do enough. Be careful not to interpret the love between you too superficially and rationally, as that will be dangerous. No matter what, don't let reason prevail over emotion at any time. After all, love and marriage require more emotional communication.
Fifth, show your personality
◎Conflicts are hidden in your heart
If you cannot coordinate each other's energy in your marriage, it will cause very significant consequences. negative impact. If the energy between you is flowing smoothly, you may not feel it too much. The two of you will get along harmoniously and have a stable relationship. However, if you cannot release it smoothly, you will face a series of difficulties.
Because the conflict between your mutual self-awareness is deeply buried at the bottom of your respective hearts, it is difficult to relieve it through some external means. These conflicts often occur over seemingly everyday things, in which you are often unaware of the seriousness of the problem.
If you live under the same roof, this conflict will eventually be unleashed in the form of arguments over family reasons. You may have different ideas about how to run a household. If you live with your parents, your parents may be the direct trigger of the argument. But these are not the real reasons. The most fundamental problem is that you tend to suppress your true thoughts too deeply. Once your true thoughts about various things are challenged or questioned, they will clearly appear in your consciousness. level, and then you realize that you cannot agree with the other person's point of view.
In order to solve these problems, you each need to explore your true inner thoughts.
Six, your philosophy of life
⊙Enhancement of thinking realm
Your marriage means that you will interact with each other through *** in daily life. Experience, ideology is expanded and improved with each other.
Being together, you two can help each other escape from narrow and critical thinking habits. And the change is usually a pleasant one and does not cause any discomfort.
You will gradually find better ways to handle your daily affairs and break away from your old ways. And you will find that after being with each other, you will become more and more interested in philosophy and other subjects that improve the realm of life. Your union will elevate your mutual lives to a new level.
Seven, your mutual responsibilities
⊙The important influence of money
Your marriage often implies that you are prone to have disagreements with each other regarding money. Trust, lack of security. In addition, you may always feel a strong sense of lack of property and will try your best to make money. Money is the biggest concern for both of you, and therefore may be the biggest cause of problems between you.
Sometimes you may be too frugal in your life, be too stingy in every aspect of your life, and cannot enjoy life well. Likewise, trivial financial matters can often lead to all kinds of quarrels between you. Therefore, your property and money become a decisive factor in your relationship.
Moreover, your marriage will most likely face financial constraints for a period of time. But what often causes this situation is your attitude in dealing with property. This attitude causes you to miss many obvious opportunities to make money or fail to retain the property. You stick to the rules and are afraid of taking risks, so that you follow the same old paths, even though these old paths may always lead you to poverty.
sBecause you care too much about money, you must learn to be more generous with money, so that when faced with opportunities, you will not miss out on them because you cannot let go. In this way, you will not create a situation where you resent each other.
Eight, your fluctuation factors
⊙Avoid tense exchanges of ideas
Your marriage indicates that your marriage will completely change your basic view of life. This change may be a gradual and subtle change, or it may be a sudden and sudden change. But change will be inevitable. And the two of you may continually express to each other your new ways of seeing the world, while simultaneously trying to change each other's minds.
As this trend in your marriage continues to strengthen, you must avoid desperate efforts to make your marriage conform to your own wishes. If you try to do this, the instability in your marriage will become very apparent, and your interactions will become strange and divisive, often making each other angry.
If this state of affairs continues, you will eventually feel that being with each other will make you very nervous and uncomfortable, and you will be unable to maintain a peaceful state of mind. There are indeed some couples like you who achieve their own progress by challenging each other's thoughts. But for a marriage, this often means a loss of stability.
Nine, your potential blind spots
⊙Avoid excessive fantasies about home
Your marriage is the most two-sided marriage.
You each share an overly idealistic vision of family and strive to pursue that vision wholeheartedly.
What you often talk about may be "It would be great if we could have a home of our own" or "It would be great if our home could be like this" and other similar topics surrounding home. While you are imagining each other, you forget that your family in reality also requires your hard work. The two of you are just imagining a family in your mind, but you don't pay attention to what is happening at home in reality.
Sometimes this means that, even though your relationship is on the rocks, the two of you haven't noticed that fact yet.
If you are asked to give up your fantasy, you may be extremely reluctant. In fact, this is almost impossible. But what is necessary is that you must learn to recognize the reality and let fantasy and reality coexist peacefully in your world. If you can recognize this and shift your fantasies to more spiritual pursuits, then there won't be too many problems between you.
Ten. Changes in your life
⊙Don’t take money too seriously
When the two of you come together, you will find that you start to have a lot of money. A strong passion for acquiring property, which surpasses all other goals. It seems that unconsciously, you regard matter as the source of power that changes and controls all things.
You feel that in order to control your own life, you must control your wealth as much as possible. But it should be noted that too much material greed will eventually lead to a situation where you do not dominate wealth, but wealth dominates you.
Of course, your pursuit is not limited to the material level. Your marriage will bring you a strong set of values. Whether you agree with this new arrival of values ??or not, you need to accept it. If you reject this new value, it will become the source of all your conflicts. Similarly, if you are not flexible enough to accommodate the other person's value system, it may also lead to conflicts between you.
But generally speaking, the pursuit of property or material things is likely to eventually become a decisive factor in limiting the development of your relationship, or at least it will become a controlling factor in the success or failure of your marriage. You must learn to accurately evaluate the importance of wealth to you, and not to take it too seriously, because together, you will often care too much about it.
1. Quantity distribution of various characteristics
☆Excellent interactive power: 3
○Advantageous interactive power: 9
⊙Neutral interaction power: 2
◎Unfavorable interaction power: 1
●Fatal interaction power: 0
II. Analysis of specific interaction characteristics< /p>
☆Luck and opportunity go hand in hand
It should be said that you are a pretty good couple, at least in the eyes of outsiders, you will be a pretty lucky couple. You often have the same outlook on life, and being together can provide more opportunities for each other's development. Many times, one of the two people will bring more wealth, or at least wealth opportunities, to the other; and the other person will in turn provide the other with a lot of support.
With your union, your mutual sense of luck will be greatly improved, so to a certain extent, this also provides a source of motivation for the harmonious coexistence of both parties. At the same time, your luck is not only reflected in the material level, but also greatly benefits each other's spiritual realm. Through joint efforts, both parties can greatly improve their respective life realms. Your union not only represents the immediate luck, but also represents the joy of growing. Therefore, even if you don't become a couple in the end, getting together will have a great positive effect on each other.
☆Pleasure and opportunity coexist
It is very easy to create a fun-filled attraction between you, and you will feel warmer because of each other's company. Moreover, after you get to know each other, it seems that the door to your own life opportunities is also opened at the same time. You have a feeling similar to a new life, and new opportunities are waving to you.
You have so much to share together, and there is always no lack of happiness together. And you'll tend to like each other's complete selves. That is to say, in your eyes, the other party's advantages are advantages, and disadvantages can also become advantages. In this way, many difficulties that are difficult for other couples to overcome will be easier for you to overcome, because your tolerance for each other is very high.
Even if it is really difficult, you will not be able to get together in the end. But when we look back on the days we shared together, we still find that each other’s gains far outweigh each other’s efforts.
☆Warm and true romantic feeling
There will be a very romantic emotion between you, and it is easy for each other to feel each other's love deeply. The love between you ensures that you can overcome many difficulties and obstacles that others cannot face, making your marriage more stable and lasting. It's not usually a stormy love affair between you (unless there are other factors interfering with it), so this gentle and warm feeling of love is enough to keep you in a long-term relationship.
You are both lovers and friends, and you can share much more with each other than you can in either relationship alone. At the same time, your combination has a strong parental instinct, so having a child after marriage is what you long for, and the arrival of a child will also become an important factor in making your relationship more stable.
○A strong combination that gets stronger with each setback
Maybe you will face many practical difficulties together, and there may be some difficult times that you need to go through together. . But the good news is that you have the greatest understanding of difficulties. Instead of giving up on each other because of difficulties, you will work hard to overcome them. And as the hard times pass, the most difficult experiences between you will bring you closer together.
Perhaps many couples fly away when disaster strikes, but you are able to face the difficulties and work hard to move forward. Your spirit is very worthy of the envy of other couples. Of course, this characteristic in itself does not guarantee whether you will love each other. But if you are in love, then having this characteristic will undoubtedly add great stability to your marriage.
○***Same hobbies, ***Same fun
It should be said that having this characteristic is very beneficial to marriage. Because this characteristic ensures that you usually have many similar hobbies, so you usually like to spend your leisure time in each other's company. For a peaceful society, whether two people can continue to explore different strengths in their daily lives is an important indicator of marital happiness.
Too many couples will fall into the boring chores after marriage, but usually you will not be like this. Instead, you can continue to feel good emotional interactions with each other.
But one danger is that the interaction between you usually shows that it is difficult for you to treat each other objectively and rationally (unless there are other characteristics that make up for this), so if you are not suitable in many other aspects , but are attracted by the fun of each other's company, then it is very likely that they will eventually fall into a strong love-hate relationship. Breaking up is naturally difficult. After all, when they think of the good times they spent together, there will always be a feeling of reluctance between the two of them. At this time, the lethality of love memory can be reflected.
○Emotional integration
There are strong subjective emotions between you, which makes it easy for you to create a strong emotional adhesion to each other. But the danger is that you may not be able to objectively tell whether there are any problems between you, and it is easy to fall in love in a hot head. Still, for intimacy, being alone is pretty good.
○Work together to create opportunities
You have a certain degree of tacit understanding, and both communication and mutual cooperation are relatively smooth. At the same time, there is also a very normal attraction between you. Usually, there is no need to hide anything between you, and you can fully show your truest side. So, this is a very comfortable interactive feeling.
At the same time, you usually don’t have too many worries about who belongs to whom and who overcomes whom. It develops more in a situation of equality and joint efforts. This kind of overall coordination lays a good foundation for the development of your marriage.
○Strong sexual attraction
It should be said that there is usually not an objective and rational communication attitude between you. You can clearly feel the physical attraction to each other, and both of you send out strong sexual signals to each other. Moreover, you usually don't suppress your enthusiastic reactions and will fully devote yourself to bed exercises. Therefore, sex is an important bond between you, making it easy for you to enjoy it.
However, you cannot hope that each other can maintain aloofness and rationality towards each other, because this characteristic will dilute your rational factors and allow each other to integrate into each other more emotionally. Similarly, if you have some possible sexual flaws that prevent you from satisfying each other's strong sexual desire, it may be very troublesome.
○***Share good fun together
You usually do not restrict each other's self-expression, and you will appreciate the characteristics of the other person. You usually don't make demands of each other that are difficult to meet.
At the same time, you will be willing to attend various activities with each other, and you will also be willing to share art and watch performances together. This kind of unique artistic pursuit can greatly enrich your mutual enjoyment of life.
○Express ideas clearly and directly
There is not much concealment in the communication between you. Usually when you have an idea, the first reaction is to say it. Because of each other's presence, your thoughts are more full of vitality. It is even possible that you will intentionally induce each other to start some verbal quarrels and enjoy the debate.
If you have many other conflicts, then this characteristic may separate you in the early stages of the relationship. But if you have a tacit understanding as a whole, having such characteristics is actually a very big advantage. Imagine, as a couple, how could there be no dissatisfaction with each other, but many people put up with it for the sake of the harmony in front of them. But this kind of tolerance accumulates, and in the end new accounts and old accounts are settled together, which can be extremely harmful.
On the contrary, if you are unhappy, you will say it directly, tell the other person clearly what you think, and usually don't like to hold grudges. This actually helps to ease the tension in the couple and makes their life more dynamic.
○Material and spiritual double harvest
The two of you coming together will not only bring you a more optimistic life experience, but also open up opportunities for each other to obtain more material wealth. Chance. The two of you usually don't force each other to make changes that go against the other's wishes, but are more willing to accept each other's current personalities and behaviors.
Both of you will have your horizons broadened by each other's presence, and your married life will not fall into simple routines. You can even discover different kinds of beauty in ordinary life.
○Fire-like enthusiasm
A couple with such characteristics is usually a very energetic couple. Together, you have the same enthusiasm and motivation. Many tasks that are troublesome for other couples can be completed easily by you. It also means that if you can do things together, you will gain more than just marriage itself. And indeed, you do need to find similar careers or activities, or at least participate in more sports or outdoor activities together.
Another place that reflects your strong energy is on the bed. The lust that explodes between you is almost dizzyingly beautiful. It is conceivable that as long as there are no other interactive forces that are too serious, your performance in bed will be extremely fragrant.
⊙Rational communication atmosphere
Relatively speaking, you will not fall into an overly emotional quagmire. Usually, you have some rationality besides your feelings for each other. You can analyze the problems that arise between you relatively objectively, without being overwhelmed by difficulties and showing great negative emotions. This kind of rational communication atmosphere should be said to be a very good trend in modern society.
But equally, you also need to avoid an overly rational attitude towards feelings. After all, marriage is about getting married and living together, not a business alliance that completely abandons subjective feelings, so not everything can be solved rationally. If you try to remain rational at all times, you will slowly develop a sense of alienation from each other. This needs to be avoided as much as possible.
⊙Like verbal communication
You will be a couple who likes to communicate with each other, especially sharing feelings through chatting. Although this tendency to like to communicate cannot itself indicate the quality of your marriage, after all, in this era, being able to communicate and discuss well is good for the stability of the marriage.
But this influence may also have some negative effects. For example, you may like to discuss issues between two people rationally and like to argue about right and wrong. But you must remember that marriage is sometimes irrational, and no one is right or wrong. Even, sometimes it is necessary to ignore some errors. If there are some bad interactions between you (after all, perfect marriages are rare), then your attitude of holding on to the problem may be counterproductive. This is something you must work hard to overcome.
◎Asceticism
From the perspective of the relationship between ordinary people, there is nothing wrong with this characteristic, but for our ordinary couples, this characteristic is not so optimistic. . Indeed, your relationship symbolizes a good combination of dreams and reality. One person will help the other person to realize his ideal with a down-to-earth spirit, while the other person will provide this dream. However, there is so much spiritual interaction between you that you may even feel that sex between you is unclean. It's unlikely that one of you wants it but the other isn't. It's more likely that neither of you has sexual needs for each other.
Therefore, if you are still young, you must carefully consider your motives before choosing such a relationship and entering marriage.
A pretty good marriage:
There is only the possibility of conflict between you on a small number of issues. If you make good use of your strengths in interaction, your marriage will be easy. Long lasting.
You are a good couple. Perseverance and patience will lead to victory in the end!