Strength is humiliating, wisdom is hurting, and affection is not long. Where did it come from?

Wisdom is bound to hurt, love is not long, strength is humiliating, modesty is modest, and softness is like jade. This is the inscription on a piece of Baoyu given to Chen Jialuo by Qianlong in The Story of the Sword. These words contain the truth of life. After reading them, Chen really has a kind of satisfaction, which is hard to suppress. Now calm down and think about it. After that, the first eight words seem to be another warning to people's lifestyle or concept. Wisdom is bound to hurt, and deep feelings will not last long. These eight words seem to represent a supreme state of being a man, and really tell the whole story of many people's tragedies through the ages ... people are alive, and nine times out of ten they are unhappy. For example, illness and death, such as parting, resentment and hatred, are all welcome, such as ... it doesn't matter if you can't see clearly or understand, and it is also a good way of life. However, there is just one kind of person who can see clearly, think clearly and understand thoroughly. The so-called wisdom will hurt. In this world, some people have a dream all their lives, and some people are more skilled. It is hard to say who is right or wrong, but the latter will be more hurt by the world of mortals than the former. As for deep feelings, it has to be said that it is universally applicable. Think about it, too. How much affection can a person's heart hold? Sadly, there are so many idiots in the world who commit themselves to life and death for a love story, which is called love robbery. Reading from childhood is very miscellaneous, there are all kinds, but when it comes to the word novel, there is probably no one who doesn't talk about love. Qian Fan is over, but it is not over yet. In short, the way of life is moderation, the principle is flexibility, and the way of love is tolerance. Two people have a house, love each other, rely on each other, but not stick to each other, and live and die together.