After marriage, problems not found in love gradually emerged. The two obviously still love each other, but they have to end this relationship for various reasons.
Marriage is like wearing shoes. Fit is the most important thing. Whether shoes are really comfortable to wear on yourself, only you know best.
Why are these marriages unpopular?
The first kind: forbearing marriage.
Youyou, like many girls, entered the desired marriage life after a vigorous love affair, especially after marriage, and devoted herself to being a full-time wife at home and devoting herself wholeheartedly to the family.
Husband goes out early and returns late, understands her husband's hard work and difficulty, is patient and tolerant of her husband in everything, and can rely on other people's lives. After all, something is missing.
At first, her husband was very grateful to Youyou for giving birth to a child for himself and for running the family alone. But gradually, after a long time, the husband took it all for granted. When Youyou didn't cook in time, her husband's face became gloomy, and sometimes he even swore.
For the sake of children and this family, I patiently endured it, but I didn't get the slightest understanding from my husband.
Yo-yo's mother advised Yo-yo to get a divorce if she failed. Going back to her parents' house is a big deal.
This kind of marriage, why not be optimistic?
Because blindly relying on inclusive marriage is easy to make the dependent party become arrogant, and arrogant people are often conceited. For a conceited person, the more tolerant and tolerant you are, the better he feels about himself and will naturally ignore you.
The second type: the marriage where the door is not right.
Used to listen to the old man say? Is it appropriate? I don't think it makes sense, especially when it comes to feelings. Why can't two people like each other? Why do you still care about so many family situations?
I'll understand when I grow up. This statement makes sense to every couple.
Light light blue envied the love story between Cinderella and Prince Charming since she was a child. She secretly thought that she must find a Prince Charming to marry.
The reality is indeed as he wishes. Her family is ordinary and she is taken by the son of real estate. Due to the disparity in family circumstances, relatives and friends here in light light blue disapproved of this marriage, but light light blue felt that they were jealous, and in the case of many people's opposition, they flashed their marriage to the rich second generation.
The deep feelings after marriage haven't lasted for a year, and light light blue offered to divorce. It turns out that not only is the family disparity too great, but even the spirit is wrong.
This kind of marriage, why not be optimistic?
Because I insisted on entering the marriage hall knowing that it was not suitable, and the only one who suffered in the end was myself.
The third kind: the marriage of cold war every day.
It is common for married couples to quarrel with each other. As long as it can be solved and handled in time, feelings can still return to the original.
Pingping is a cheerful girl, but recently it has been found that she has become more and more reticent since she married her husband.
After some conversation, I realized that the two often quarrel because of a little thing, and even expose each other's shortcomings and scars when quarreling. To this end, as soon as the quarrel ended, the two began the cold war.
Couples in the cold war are most likely to get angry, and no one will admit their mistakes first. They live under the same roof, but their hearts are not together
This kind of marriage, why not be optimistic?
Marriage in the cold war every day has almost become the normal state of life. After a long cold war, my heart became cold. Such a marriage is naturally destined to last for a long time.
Why are these marriages unpopular?
Because people who really know how to manage marriage will understand the meaning of marriage before marriage and put an end to improper marriage without knowing each other. After marriage, I will not blindly tolerate quarrels, nor will I think that I will lose if I admit my mistake first.
In a happy marriage, the days are getting more and more lively every day. You make him feel at ease, rest assured, and he makes you feel at ease. In this way, we can go on for a long time.