First of all, I am not writing this article to let people "calculate" a child's life according to the "date of birth". A person's fate is determined by many factors, as well as his own choices and efforts. It is not determined by the date of birth.
I just want to talk about the influence of "time" on our parenting from my own experience of taking care of Buniu and several nephews and nieces at home.
It really makes people feel lucky because they are stuck in some "time slots". And it's good for the baby. For example, these times:
One: the period of complete pregnancy
Although there is no evidence that babies born to parents who are fully prepared for pregnancy are more promising or have higher IQ than those who are pregnant without pregnancy. But if parents are prepared to get pregnant before they want to have children, it will really be better for their children.
The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that the nutrition supplemented by mothers during pregnancy can store energy for the early pregnancy.
Many mothers, in the pre-pregnancy period, will have a serious morning sickness reaction. In recent months, I can hardly eat. Early pregnancy is a critical period for fetal brain development. At this time, he has to absorb a lot of nutrition from his mother.
If the mother is fully prepared for pregnancy, she can reserve enough nutrition for the early fetus. We will be calmer and less worried than rushing into pregnancy.
Moreover, during pregnancy, expectant mothers will take certain folic acid, which can prevent fetal congenital malformation. I will also be careful not to use drugs indiscriminately. Some mothers just got pregnant in a daze and found that they had taken medicine because of a minor illness. At this time, it is inevitable to be scared.
Dad-to-be will also pay attention to work and rest and refrain from smoking. This will provide a safe and comfortable environment for the arrival of the baby.
Therefore, when the parents are completely pregnant, the arrival of the baby will make people worry a lot to a certain extent.
Two: Parents are at a good childbearing age.
According to the report of the American Medical Association:
The probability will increase with age. For women aged 20-30, the probability is less than 10%. And 30-40, rising to 20%. For women over 40, this probability rises to 30%.
The older a woman is, the lower the chance of getting pregnant. Because once you reach the age of 30, women's fertility begins to decline. After the age of 35, our reserves became worse.
The book Sears Pregnant mentions that after the age of 35, especially after the age of 40, the chances of giving birth to a Down's baby will be greater.
It can be seen that the older you get, the greater the challenge for both mother and baby. The mother recovers more slowly and the baby is in greater danger.
Parents are pregnant at a better reproductive age, and the baby born will be very healthy.
And there is another advantage that parents are energetic at this time and can cope with noisy babies. For example, the baby stands upside down all day, crying, rummaging around at the age of one or two, and playing with him at the age of two or three?
All these require parents to have enough energy to deal with.
It is also a "blessing" for children that young parents can keep up. He can enjoy more parent-child time and establish close relationship, which is of great benefit to character building.
Three: full-term baby
From the moment my mother knew that she was pregnant, the simplest and greatest wish was the arrival of the baby's health and safety.
The medical profession defines 40 weeks as the complete "pregnancy" of pregnant mothers. In other words, the baby is full-term, generally indicating the 40th week of life. But because each baby's situation is different, some will be ahead of time, and some will be a few days late.
Generally speaking, after nine months of pregnancy, mothers can prepare for delivery. I was pregnant with rabbits for 39 weeks, and nothing happened. I am anxious because I am worried about what will happen to the baby in my belly.
The book "One page a day during pregnancy" says that it is better for a baby to stay in his mother's stomach for one more day than to stay outside for seven days.
See this sentence, I just put down my heart and work with peace of mind.
For the baby who has not yet reached the delivery period, it is a more comfortable environment: constant temperature, continuous nutrition supply and quiet.
By September of pregnancy, although the baby is developing well, it can also cope with the external environment. But one more day in his mother's belly will improve his lung development. At birth, the adaptability to the external environment is stronger.
By observing the babies around us, we can find that full-term babies rarely need "special care". After birth, you can stay with your mother and enjoy the care of your family.
From this perspective, a full-term baby is healthy, and her family is less worried. She is really a "lucky dog"
Four: Birth season
Some people say that babies born in special seasons (such as spring) will be smarter. It is debatable whether a child's IQ is related to the season of birth. Mother cuckoo is skeptical.
But I have to say that children born in certain seasons are really better to take care of.
Like early summer or autumn.
In spring or winter, when the climate is cold, it is not easy to take care of a baby. Newborns need to change diapers frequently, which will inevitably dirty their pants. Changing the baby's clothes often will increase the probability of catching a cold.
The newborn's resistance is weak, and minor illness may be a great challenge for him.
It's too hot in summer, so I always stay in an air-conditioned room, and I'm inevitably worried about poor air circulation and catching cold.
And if the baby is born in early summer or autumn, it is easy to bring a lot. Wearing few clothes makes it relatively easy to take care of him.
At this time, the climate is good, neither too cold nor too hot, so you can often go out for a walk and develop your cognition. And basking in the sun in the morning and evening can also supplement vitamin D to promote calcium supplementation, which not only grows the body, but also prevents rickets.
There are many fruits and vegetables in these two seasons, and babies who breastfeed can get more nutrition especially.
In this way, children born in early summer or autumn are indeed more blessed.
▼ Write at the end:
In fact, no matter when a child is born, it needs careful care from parents. It doesn't mean that a child's birth date can really determine his future life direction.
After infancy, children are basically easier to look after. At this time, in addition to the baby's health, it is also necessary to cultivate children's habits and rules.
A child with good living habits and study habits will really become a "lucky dog" and a Fuwa in the future.
Ok, let's not talk about this topic. Was your baby born during the above period?
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