Buddha said that the marriage didn't go well.

First, the Buddha said that the reason for the unsatisfactory marriage is 1. There is a great relationship between two people's feelings and fate. Fate can be met but not sought. If two people are predestined friends, they will meet in the future. If two people have no fate, it is difficult for them to know each other even if they stand in front of each other. Fate is a wonderful thing. He can't touch or see. Everyone has his own personality, and everyone's personality is different. If in a relationship, it is very important for two people to match their personalities. If two people have similar personalities, they will soon be attracted to each other and can keep a certain distance. If they get too close, there will often be some contradictions. Judging from the marriage of two people, if their pillars collide or hurt, it fully shows that their foundation is very poor. If two people's pillars collide or hurt each other, it means that their feelings will not last long. If the pillars of the sun collide with each other or hurt each other, it shows that the two people are very different in personality, and they get along very unharmoniously. There will be many contradictions when they get along, and eventually they will end up in discord. Second, the Buddha said that the reason for delaying marriage was 1. In our traditional culture in China, a person's date of birth is closely related to his marriage. A person's date of birth is divided into year column, moon column, sun column and hour column. The time column represents our destiny at different ages. The annual column is our fortune when we are 1~ 16 years old, and the monthly column is related to our fortune when we are young. The sun column is related to our fortune between the ages of 32 and 48, and the time column is related to our fortune in later years, that is, our fortune between the ages of 48 and 64. 2. If many official stars beat him, in fact, to put it bluntly, this person's peach blossom luck is better, and too much peach blossom luck makes his marriage messy. If there are many official stars on his birthday, it means that this person is likely to have many marriages and his feelings are bumpy. All good heterosexual relationships are rotten peaches, which makes people unable to tell the true and false feelings. Among the many people who pursue him, they have lost their best fit. Buddha said that the reasons for the unsatisfactory marriage were 2 1. Why is the marriage unhappy 1? The feelings of fate are still related to fate. Fate is impossible to meet. If two people are destined, they will meet again in the future; If there is no fate, standing in front of you may be difficult to get to know each other. The fate is long, but it is shallow. Fate is a wonderful thing, invisible and intangible, but it is also a potential sign in the relationship between two people. 2. Personality Everyone has his own personality. In feelings, it is very important whether two people's personalities are suitable or not. Two people with similar personalities will be attracted quickly because of their personalities. If they keep a certain distance, they can get along well. However, if you are too close, it is easy to have rebellious psychology and lead to contradictions. 3. From the perspective of marriage, if the pillars collide, hurt each other or punish each other, it means that their marriage foundation is not good; If the moon columns collide, harm each other or punish each other, it means that the fate of the two is not long; If the sun collides with the pillar, hurting each other or punishing each other, it shows that the two people are incompatible and get along unharmoniously; If they collide with each other, hurt each other and punish each other, it means that there will be many contradictions in the process of getting along, and eventually there may be a bad ending. Second, the Buddha said that the reason for the unsatisfactory marriage is 1. Everything has a cause and effect, and the unhappiness of marriage also has a cause and effect. Whether two people can be together depends on fate, whether they can become husband and wife depends on whether the blessings are the same or not, and they can only get married if they have the same blessings. There is another kind of debt, called marriage debt. Before meeting the right person, you should respect and love yourself. You can't hurt others in the name of marriage and love. If you owe too much debt, it will lead to your own, and even bring trouble to your child's marriage. There are all kinds of relationships between people, including good relationships and bad relationships. It doesn't matter, people won't be together. In the past, there were too few good deeds and not enough good deeds. In this world, there will naturally be few or no couples who can marry you. Good karma is very important, and it is necessary to build good karma. 3. Another factor that affects marriage is karma. Generally speaking, most of the karmic obstacles affecting marriage are directly related to the past and present behavior of individuals. For example, in the past, a third party destroyed other people's families, and in this world, their own families will also be destroyed by third parties; In the past, people who sow discord among other people's families and leave others alone all their lives can't find a partner in this world and live alone all their lives; Wait a minute. Buddha said that there are three reasons why marriage is unsatisfactory: the old marriage is unsatisfactory and the real reason for not getting married. In Buddhism, adultery is the first thing, including unmarried cohabitation, masturbation, psychosexuality, watching bad videos and so on. Prostitution refers to all bad behaviors outside the legal life of husband and wife. Like masturbation and psychosexuality, watching bad videos is obscene, so we must pay attention to it. Don't think that these are all personal actions and don't seem to hurt everyone. Actually, starting to think is a career. The ancients said that "the head of all evil", evil can eliminate good news quickly, especially emotional good news, and people's emotional good news has a certain limit. Porn. People get a short-term "happiness" in the process of adultery, and they will pay a high price in their feelings in the future. Second, unfilial parents, against the elders. Zhu Dexiao comes first. Among all people, parents are the most grateful to us, and parents are our buddhas and bodhisattvas. The Tripitaka says, "If there is no Buddha in the world, caring for parents is caring for Buddha." If we are filial, we are very blessed people and will be protected by heaven and earth. Some young people, who don't respect their parents, often encounter bad objects to torture them in the process of falling in love. Only filial piety can lead to a good marriage. Advise those who are not happy emotionally, first of all, to confess their many mistakes, such as unfilial, fornication, killing lives and so on. Once you know how to be filial to your parents, your happiness will grow slowly. Third, it destroyed other people's marriages. Family is the foundation of social stability. Entanglement with married people has seriously affected the stability of other people's families, and a family has old people, children, relatives and friends, so disturbing other people's families hurts too many people, so you have to bear the corresponding consequences, leading to your own marriage is not smooth. Buddhism says that if you rob a hundred times, you will not die, and your karma will be born. Fourth, I like watching romantic dramas and novels, and my feelings are still very fragile. Some people will think, what's wrong with watching TV dramas and novels? Why is it associated with bad feelings? We should know that some people who watch emotional dramas are often infected by the plot in the drama and will cry bitterly, which is constantly consuming their emotional blessings. It's a waste of one's emotional blessing to get stuck too deeply in the play, "enjoy" the happiness of love and "bear" the pain of love. Fifth, be beautiful and dress sexy. It is said that being beautiful is conducive to finding a good partner, but it is not necessarily true. If you are just beautiful in appearance without wisdom guidance, it is easy to cause the color center of the opposite sex, and it is also easy to fall into an ambiguous relationship between the two sexes, thus damaging your emotional blessing. It is generally difficult for stars to get married early, and their feelings are not smooth, and there are more on-off and on-off. One of the reasons is that they dress sexy and look beautiful, which often arouses the public's desire and affects the public's feelings, so they also have emotional troubles themselves. Sixth, other reasons. In today's society, there are many elite men who are excellent in all aspects, but it is normal that they get married late. It is also normal for some high-quality girls to get married late, because many of these people are different from ordinary people. They tend to be very demanding of the opposite sex and are not easy to get married early. There are also sick people, such as depression, mental disorders, and getting married late. These are all unfortunate because of deep grievances, so repent more.