Fate is predestined, and it's not human at all?

A Zhe tells a story: Marriage is predestined, and nothing can help it.

Wen/A Zhe

There is a couple who are congenial to each other, almost to the point of "not marrying unless you are a gentleman or a concubine", and not only do both parents agree with their communication, but even relatives and friends think that they are a natural couple. But one day, the woman's mother took their birthdates to tell her fortune on a whim, and the result was: the eight characters didn't match, and she made a mistake. After the fortune teller came back, the woman's mother began to strongly oppose their continued contact.

Disappointed, the man promised his mother to arrange a blind date for him soon, and decided to get married after two months of contact with each other. However, two days before their wedding, their ex-girlfriend suddenly called and said: Her mother took their birthdates to the temple to ask God again a few days ago, and the result was exactly the opposite: she got a "sign". Now her mother has agreed to their marriage.

The news came as a bolt from the blue for him, telling his parents that he wanted to break off his marriage, but his parents didn't agree, thinking it was a kind of harm to others. Besides, the restaurant was booked, the invitations were sent out, and the wedding photos were taken. How can he say that he would break off his marriage? His father also told him that marriage should be carried out with the blessing of all people and should not be obtained by hurting one party. He had to compromise when what was done was done.

As the saying goes, "Marriage is predestined, and nothing can be helped. That is to say, there is a force in the dark that brings two people together, and sometimes it is impossible to force them.