Are cold and violent people bad in character?

In modern society, cold violence has become a common social phenomenon. Cold violence refers to a kind of violence hidden in words and actions, which will not directly cause physical harm, but will do great harm to people's psychology. The manifestations of cold violence are very diverse, including ridicule, provocation, neglect and threat in words, exclusion, isolation and suppression in behavior. Its harmfulness is no less than direct violence, and even more subtle and vicious.

Is a cold and violent man bad in character?

There is no doubt that people who are cold and violent have bad personalities. Because cold and violent men are often selfish, arrogant, self-centered, lacking sympathy and disrespecting others' personality traits. They will not directly use violence to hurt others, but will use cold violence to control, suppress and hurt others. They often lack care and respect for others, only care about their own interests and feelings, regardless of the feelings and needs of others. This kind of personality defect will have a great negative impact on their interpersonal relationship, and will also affect their career and life.

How to deal with cold and violent men?

For cold and violent men, we need to take some measures to deal with them. The specific steps are as follows:

1. Stay calm. In the face of cold and violent men, we should try to remain calm, not to be influenced by their words and deeds, not to be influenced by their emotions. We should learn to control our emotions and remain calm and rational.

2. Communication and expression. When we meet men with cold violence, we should communicate and express with them as much as possible, let them know our feelings and needs, and let them know that we don't accept their cold violence. At the same time, we should respect their feelings and needs and let them know that we are willing to cooperate with them to solve problems together.

Ask for help. If we can't cope with cold and violent men ourselves, we can ask for help. We can ask friends, family members, colleagues, superiors or professionals for help and advice, and let them help us solve problems.

4. protect yourself. In the face of cold violence, men should protect themselves. We can take some measures to protect ourselves, such as avoiding being alone with them, keeping our distance, not trusting them easily and not revealing personal information.

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There is no doubt that people who are cold and violent have poor character. We should learn to deal with cold and violent men and protect our rights and dignity. At the same time, we should also pay attention to and appeal to the society to pay attention to cold violence and jointly create a harmonious, respectful and equal social environment.