It is normal for couples to quarrel, because two people have different genders, may have different personalities, may not have the same interests and hobbies, have different ways of dealing with people, have different views on educating their children, and have different outlooks on life. , values, consumption views, etc. may be different.
The world is so big and there are so many different people who can come together, it means that you two are destined. Since you have a fate, you should cherish it. What's more, you also have a pair of lovely twin sisters, which are the fruit of your love.
Husbands and wives always quarrel, not because of incompatibility (that's a superstitious saying), but because of differences in your views, opinions, etc., or because of excessive work or life pressure. The best way is to communicate more, communicate more, and be more considerate and tolerant.
I hope you can find a suitable time, find a quiet environment, talk calmly, and exchange more views and ideas about yourself, your family, your work, your children, etc. If it doesn't work, seek outsider mediation.
I sincerely wish you love as a couple, share joys and sorrows, and happiness as a family!