In 1987's "A Chinese Ghost Story", the Chinese character in it was played by Wang Zuxian. She had a delicate appearance and a pair of spiritual eyes. Everyone who saw it said she looked like a female ghost. In fact, no one had ever seen a female ghost. , it’s just a feeling.
She always wears white clothes and runs away in the night covered with dry ice. She looks tall because of the camera. It is said that she was originally a member of the school basketball team. To be honest, this appearance and body shape are not enough for shooting in ancient costumes. Exquisite, but strangely, Wang has become a beautiful female ghost in boys' hearts, almost like the lover in their dreams. That poignant poster was posted on the walls of the boys, marking their early love object paradigm. At that time, Maggie Cheung, Michelle Reis, and Chung Chu-hong... In a word, they were all beauties, but they acted and wore clothes every day. The beautiful love story, the beautiful boring, the ethereal temperament of few ghosts.
Ethereal means leaving some blank space and some coldness outside of the rich beauty.
Kwan Zhilin, who comes from a celebrity family, became a beauty at the age of 18 under the careful upbringing of her parents. And when this little princess who grew up in a fairy tale world entered the world for the first time as an adult, her pain in life began. Every woman misses her beautiful and flowery girlhood, but she never wants to look back at the past. It hurts to think about those young and frivolous impulsive memories.
A daughter of the Guan family has just grown up
Raised in a boudoir and unknown to anyone
Guan Zhilin’s original name is Guan Jiahui, a typical girl-next-door name. Born in Hong Kong in 1962, his father Guan Shan is a famous movie star. In 1958, he won the Best Actor Award at the Swiss Rocarno Film Festival for his starring role in "The True Story of Ah Q", becoming the first Chinese actor to win international awards. people. Her mother, Zhang Bingqian, is also a famous actress of the Great Wall Company.
“Peach seeds and dew seeds in the sky, red apricots planted in the clouds on the edge of the sun.” Little Rosamund Kwan was already a little star as soon as she was born. In addition, she is so beautiful that she is loved by everyone. . The parents are both proud and nervous about this angelic daughter. They are proud that their daughter is talented and beautiful, but they are nervous about what kind of upbringing they should give their daughter so that she can live up to her talents in life. To this end, the parents formulated a strict training plan and worked together to start a series of perfect shaping of this little beauty.
“When I was a child, my mother paid great attention to my physical development and asked me to learn ballet to make my body lighter. Later, she discovered that people who danced ballet for a long time not only tended to have splayed feet, but also tended to have thicker thighs. , various parts of the body were not coordinated, so she immediately asked me to stop.”
My mother thought the swimming event was good and asked her to practice swimming. In order to maintain a balanced body, she was required to not only swim breaststroke, but also swim freestyle. Because the former will make the legs thicker, the latter will easily make the arms thicker. In order to keep her teeth straight, her parents took her to get braces when she was 12 years old. In order to train her to have a beautiful body, her parents often took her to play golf. In addition, her parents also asked her to learn piano and painting, so that she can not only understand piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and cultivate her temperament, but also enable her to maintain an elegant temperament while maintaining her beautiful appearance.
Under the strict upbringing of her parents, when Guan Zhilin graduated from high school at the age of 18, she had become a beautiful girl with bright eyes, white teeth, slender figure and graceful grace.
Many people believe that the Guan family’s careful upbringing of their daughter is nothing more than wanting her to become a star. Not really. Guan Zhilin explained: "My parents had strict requirements at the beginning. They just wanted me to be an excellent woman, confident, beautiful, smart, and elegant. They didn't expect that I would be allowed to film and become a star in the future. Later, when filming, it was also a mistake. There is nothing you can do about it."
Guan Zhilin's childhood was such a simple and pure fairy tale paradise. However, this little princess, who was sleeping soundly in the fairy tale, was awakened one day by her parents' noise. When she reached the age of 18, her parents' divorce led to the complete collapse of the fairy tale world, and the little princess had to walk the world alone.
Enter the world at the age of eighteen
Begin to realize that the world is difficult
My parents, who had already been at odds with each other, negotiated to maintain the family until Guan Zhilin turned 18 for the sake of their daughter. , they divorced and reorganized their new families.
“Actually, I have known for a long time that their relationship is not good. Aunts often come to the house to chat with my mother and talk about their marriage and love. They are afraid that I will hear them, so they speak Shanghainese, thinking that I can’t listen. Yes, but I understand everything."
Understanding her parents' embarrassment and difficulties, the precocious Rosamund Kwan entered society early and began her acting career out of necessity. "I'm shy by nature, and I don't have a strong desire to express myself. When I was a child, when the teacher asked me to perform on stage, I would get a big headache and be scared to death. I thought the world was coming to an end. Therefore, filming is not suitable for me. I do It’s very difficult. But things often don’t go as planned. The more you don’t want to do something, the more God will arrange it for you to do it. Just like filming, I have been doing it for 20 years and I can’t stop.”
< p>At that time, Guan Zhilin did not understand that what was more difficult than acting was the world's human heart. All the things her parents carefully taught her in the past were only "half of the world". When she entered the society, she had to learn too much, and there were too many things she had never seen or heard.Married once as a businessman
Full of infatuation
When Guan Zhilin first entered the world, she was alone, full of curiosity and fear, and looked around for protection. At that time, a man named Wang Guojing broke into her life.
Wang Guojing runs a financial trading company. He has a successful career, a considerable net worth, and is suave. He was once married and had a daughter with his ex-wife, whose age was not much different from Rosamund Kwan. Wang Guojing has a lot of contacts in the entertainment industry and is very popular with women. There have been rumors of scandals between him and several film and television actresses.
Facing the beautiful beauty Guan Zhilin, Wang Guojing launched a crazy offensive. He is careful, mature, and a father-like man. And the pure and simple Guan Zhilin, with a girl's beautiful longing for love, can't tell the difference between love and care. Moreover, she has just come out of a broken family, and she is eager to run to a place that truly belongs to her. A warm and safe harbor.
So, after the two knew each other for just over a month, they were already inseparable. As a father, Guan Shan naturally knew how this matter might end, so he strongly opposed his daughter's association with Wang Guojing, and even more opposed to their marriage. At that time, Guan Zhilin was resentful of her parents because of their divorce. She felt that her father was a loser and had no right to interfere with her choice of marriage. She insisted that her choice was right and at least more successful than her parents' marriage. many.
In August 1982, just two months after she met Wang Guojing, Rosamund Kwan ignored her parents' strong objections and flew to Las Vegas with Wang Guojing in the United States. Register for marriage.
At this time, the father realized that he lacked a lot of things in his daughter's education, and his divorce directly led to his daughter's tragedy. On the one hand, he feels ashamed of his daughter, but on the other hand, he hopes that his daughter can wake up. In desperation, the father made this decision and decided to die to persuade his daughter to change her mind. Fortunately, he was discovered in time and his father was saved.
Kwan Zhilin was greatly shocked by her father's actions. When she heard the news, she burst into tears and was heartbroken. It was not until then that she truly understood what family love was, and even more so, the expectations her father placed on her, and how heavy a blow she had caused to her father.
Under the persuasion of a group of relatives and friends, the father and daughter each made concessions. Guan Shan admitted his daughter's marriage, while Guan Zhilin said that she would no longer be stubborn in her opinion. So, the parents of both parties met, and *** discussed organizing a replacement wedding banquet in Hong Kong. After her marriage, Rosamund Kwan lived in the United States with her husband and completely separated from the entertainment industry.
However, Wang Guojing is not the kind of man who just takes a beautiful woman and adopts it. Whether in the business world or in the entertainment industry, people know very well that Wang Guojing is a "playboy", not to mention He has been wallowing in the mall and has long been accustomed to the life of singing every night. Not long after the marriage, he returned to his old ways. At this time, Guan Zhilin felt deeply lost and understood the reason why her father wanted to die to express his ambition. Nine months after the marriage, the mentally and physically exhausted Rosamund Kwan returned to Hong Kong alone.
Kwan Zhilin, who was full of passion and infatuation, was wandering alone in a deserted place. Frustrated by this, Guan Zhilin was extremely depressed for a time. That year, she was only 20 years old, and her youthful impulse brought her the first pain in her life. After that, she publicly admitted to the media: The reason why she entrusted her life to a "playboy" man who was 17 years older than her was because she had always longed for a quiet life full of warmth. After her parents divorced, this kind of life disappeared. There is no return, she needs to find someone to love herself.
Fortunately, when she realized that she had gone the wrong way, she knew that she should turn back quickly instead of continuing to suffer for the sake of face. After this blow, Guan Zhilin has become more mature. From now on, whether it is career or emotional matters, she will think about it before doing it. But the negative impact is that she has since lost confidence in marriage, no longer believes in men, and does not believe that love can last forever.
If love lasts for a long time
How can there be a marriage contract
Kwan Zhilin has been stumbling on the road of love until she met someone younger than herself 3 years ago. The 8-year-old male model Huang Jianuo has regained the sweetness and happiness that a woman feels when she is in love.
Huang Jianuo graduated from the engineering department of a university in the United States. After returning to Hong Kong, he worked as a model and tried filming. Compared with Guan Zhilin, his career is on the way up, and their status is very different. It is conceivable that Huang Jianuo is under pressure from external public opinion, which somewhat casts an unpleasant color on their love. Regarding external comments, Rosamund Kwan still goes her own way and loves what she loves, but her persistence today is no longer the same as her stubbornness yesterday.
“I am no longer a child. I know what kind of man to choose to make myself happy, so I don’t care what others say. Huang Jianuo is under more pressure than me, and some comments make him very unhappy. Comfortable, this is unfair to him. But I don’t know why, every time I see such reports, I can’t help but laugh, because he looks so innocent and sad while holding the newspaper, which makes me feel extremely cute. ”
Speaking of this, Rosamund Kwan still couldn’t help but laugh, like a mentally mature adult, laughing at a cute child who is troubled by taking one thing too seriously.
At this time, Guan Zhilin has been reborn. She is no longer the girl who was happy because of what others said. She already knows that the beauty of life is not on the tip of other people's tongues, but in her own heart.
“Being with Huang Jianuo, I feel very relaxed and comfortable. He won’t put pressure on me. It’s like the joy of two children playing games together, not thinking about anything, just playing seriously and devotedly. He Growing up in the United States, I am a very simple person, not as secular as the people in Hong Kong. I am a very sunny boy who always smiles. As for me, I am the kind of person whose mood is easily influenced by my friends, so it is easy for me to be optimistic. Happy people are together."
However, in Guan Zhilin's view, love is just love. No one can tell what will happen tomorrow. No one can say "Please give me your whole life." Therefore, she will not take it for granted that love is upgraded to marriage like other women do. "I don't want to get married and have children like other people. I don't believe that love can last, and I don't want to have children. My parents are just two children who won't grow up. They gave birth to me and brought me up; I am just another child, I don’t want to give birth to another child and let him encounter many obstacles in the world before he knows how to live.”
The past cannot be like smoke, there will always be some scars left there, and it will rain tomorrow. It will happen. Guan Zhilin's life experience gave her reason to not believe in love and marriage, and made her understand that life should be to grasp the happiness of reality in time.
Love life more than love filming
Having good health is better than having money
The taste of life, often in one's 20s, there are fewer worries and more actions, only Happiness and repentance after making mistakes; in your 30s, when your time has passed, you worry more and take less actions, your sorrow increases and your happiness decreases; in your 40s, you have a clear understanding of the world, and you often cherish the thought of the past. Cherish your life at all times, think as much as you do, and your life will gradually become a calm and beautiful place.
Guan Zhilin's 30s were full of such worries and anxieties in life. At this time, she lost her virginity as a girl and stepped into the ranks of a mature and charming woman. Her acting career was also booming and she achieved extraordinary achievements. But she thought of retiring and gave herself a "long vacation" that lasted seven years.
"Before this, I had spent a lot of time on movies. There was a time when I kept shooting and shooting. I made 60 movies in 5 years. It was very hard, and the roles were very difficult. After repeating it over and over again, I think it’s time to stop.”
Guan Zhilin, who has always claimed that she has “no ambition”, really just let it go. She hopes that life can be “more leisurely and comfortable.” A little bit. There can be many other interesting things in life besides movies.”
In the past 7 years, Rosamund Kwan has not only endorsed some brands, done promotions, and participated in some commercial activities, but most of her time has been spent traveling around the mountains and rivers. Her life is relaxed and comfortable. "It was a very simple time, and life suddenly became so beautiful and attractive. I always had no appetite before, but during that time I really liked eating, so I could enjoy the taste of delicious food on my tongue."
While enjoying life, Rosamund Kwan also began to reflect on herself, which strengths should be carried forward and which shortcomings should be corrected. Because she thought too much, she later became a little worried and lived in fear for a long time, worrying about many possibilities. I am afraid of things that will never happen in my life. "Fortunately, when I woke up one day, I suddenly understood that these things may never happen to me. Why think about it? If it does happen, just wait until it comes and then think about it. I haven't been bothered since that day. "
Such a long and detailed thinking space gave Rosamund Kwan the opportunity to truly understand herself, understand her most desired goals in this life, and cherish her current life more. "When I was young, I was very willful and would do whatever I wanted without considering the consequences. Sometimes I would even hurt myself, but I didn't know or see the consequences of anything. Now I know how to choose, better than before. Even happier.
A lot of scandals about beauties
Kwan Zhilin is known as "the most beautiful woman in Hong Kong". She has filmed countless movies so far, and the scandals are just as high as hers.
1. In 1991, it was widely rumored that she was dating wealthy businessman Liu Luanxiong, and was even photographed dating by the paparazzi. It was not until 2000 that Rosamund Kwan revealed to the media that she had broken up with him.
2. She had broken up with actor Andy Lau. The scandal has the longest history, and the two were once recognized by the media as the "best screen couple." Unfortunately, no woman has been able to completely seduce Andy, so the scandal had to be settled in the end.
3. Brother Jackie Chan also once "protected his reputation", but later it was proved that there was no emotional relationship between the two.
4. In the "Once Upon a Time" series, he and Jet Li often collaborated with each other, but they had a tacit understanding. "Falling flowers are careless, flowing water is ruthless." When encountering a tough guy like Jie Tsai, Guan Meiren had no choice but to admit her misfortune.
5. In 2001, the "sister-sister relationship" scandal with Huang Jianuo was widely spread, and the relationship between the two is now over. Publicly.
6. During the promotion of "Big Shot" in Chengdu, Miss Guan faced reporters: "If Feng Xiaogang didn't have a wife, I would definitely fall in love with him. "The words came out astonishingly.