And if you feel uneasy, you can ask an expert to help you see if you can crack it. Teach him well, don't let him leave a knot in his heart, and you can't quarrel on this grounds in the future.
If he still ignores you, don't force it. If anything happens in the future, I think he will blame your persistence and embarrass us both. Finish early and plan early.
Of course, you have to choose what kind of decision to make. I'm just giving you a suggestion. In short, after making a decision, both sides should be responsible for it, making it clear that no matter what happens in the future, they can't regret it or make a mountain out of a molehill. If there is anything, they should share it together, overcome it together and build a happy family together. I wish you happiness!
By the way, my father is a tiger and my mother is a rabbit. Not bad, but sometimes they have a little conflict. For reference only, reference!