Gengwu Wuyin Xinyou Xinmao
How come there are no official stars? The natal star is gold, the official star is Bing fire, hidden in Yin, and the noon fire is also considered. This may be the lover (far away). However, the day branch has unitary metal and the heavenly stem has three metals (geng and xin). In addition, the day branch conflicts with the hour branch, which leads to polygamy.
Looking at Bing fire, the fire is from the south, but it may be combined with Bing and Xin (in the north). The fire number is 2, 7... and so on. The husband star is in the moon pillar, which is not too far; the complexion Ruddy and enthusiastic. They sit side by side and are of the same age.
To sum up, your husband is a contemporary about 70 miles south of where you live or were born.