Looking at their youthful and anxious looks, I can't help but think of the relationships I have seen on and off campus over the years. My college classmates also have many friends in love, but only one of them got married, and most of them were scattered in the vast sea of people.
In fact, there are many reasons, such as distance, family, work and so on. As a roommate said, "I don't love it, I can't afford it."
So, when you ask me about the future of campus romance, I can only say that most of them are not optimistic, because at that time, we were too young to make a promise easily, but we were unable to undertake it. The pressure of life and the helplessness of reality often make us choose to give up the people we love most.
But, ah, not all campus romances are fruitless. There are also many people around me who can give up many things for each other, spend the most bitter days together, and finally, move towards happiness and beauty.
Therefore, whether campus romance can have a good result cannot be generalized, depending on what the parties do. In the entertainment circle, there are two pairs of friends in love. After years of ups and downs, they finally made a positive result. Happiness has become the envy of everyone.
The first couple is Yolanda and Yu Xia. They met on campus, fell in love for ten years, got married for ten years and were happy for twenty years.
Yu Xia is Yolanda's senior. He is the kind of girl who likes the new and hates the old, but Yolanda is the kind of girl who is very literary. They will be together, just like Yu Hao, the bad girl in Betta, and they will like the simple swallow. The naive swallow will be fascinated by the brave and upright Yu Hao.
In that innocent age, liking someone is as simple as that. As long as you are good to me and I like you, then we will be together. So they stayed together at 1999 for six years.
Around 2005, their relationship was in crisis, and in 2006, they officially announced their breakup. I was thinking, Yolanda must be very sad. The best seven years of girls' youth passed like this. How many of these seven years can we have in our life?
However, in 2009, Yolanda and Yu Xia suddenly announced their marriage and gave birth to a daughter on 20 10. From school uniform to wedding dress, although it was a bit bumpy, in the end, lovers get married.
Yu Xia said that he is a fun-loving person with many hobbies, and Yolanda is the most suitable person to accompany himself in this world, which may be the reason why two people can't live without each other for so many years.
The world is so big, it is not easy to meet someone who knows himself, so we must cherish it.
The second couple on campus are Lu Yi and Bao Lei. Lu Yi and Bao Lei are college classmates. They have been in love for many years. They got married in 2006. They have never had any scandals for so many years. They have always been called model couples in the entertainment circle.
After marriage, Lu Yi chose to continue to work hard in the entertainment circle, and was called a hot actor with excellent acting skills and integrity, while Bao Lei chose to return to her family, gave birth to two lovely daughters, took good care of her family and became the strong backing of Lu Yi.
Many people may say that women can't work full-time, and men will definitely change their minds. Especially in the entertainment circle, Lu Yi has so many temptations around him, which is even more irresistible. But in fact, Bao Lei is not only a stay-at-home wife, taking care of her husband and daughter's daily life, but also trying to manage her money, doubling the family's money several times.
At the same time, she is also an excellent person and has a good education for her children. Her two daughters are sensible, clever and lovely. In many variety shows, we can see that their families are happy, and Bao Lei is also the backbone of this family. I think it is such a woman who makes this family so happy.
Now, everyone says that Bao Lei and Lu Yi are more and more alike. I think this is probably the best love. You are me, and I am you. We don't want to be vigorous, we just want to last.
In the troubled environment of the entertainment circle, these two campus lovers have come to an end, and they can be happier and happier. What did they do right? I think they have achieved these three points, so they can keep their feelings fresh.
1, companionship is the longest confession.
Speaking of Yu Xia and Yolanda, many people think their combination is a bit strange at first, because Yolanda is quiet and gentle, while Yu Xia likes lively activities and has a wide range of hobbies. How can two people get along so well is really puzzling.
But Yu Xia said that yolanda was the best person to accompany him. I like going to sports, but Yolanda doesn't like it, but she will take a book and sit in a coffee shop and read.
In my opinion, this is the best feeling and the smartest way to get along. Don't ask each other to synchronize with themselves, and don't ask each other to like what they like, but accompany each other as much as possible within the scope of their abilities and keep what they want most.
I think that only living the life you want can last for a long time, and not forcing each other, which must be a big secret of this relationship's happiness.
There are so many young couples around me. They have been married for ten years. They occasionally travel alone, sleep in separate rooms and do their own things, but they never worry that distance will hurt their feelings.
Because girls say that their hobbies are really different, and they also feel that there is no need for the other party to make it difficult for them to accompany them, eventually both of them are unhappy, so they occasionally give each other a little space to do their own thing, and at other times they will accompany each other and do what they like.
I think they must love each other very much, so they can think of this way to save their love.
Companionship is the longest confession, but companionship is not stuck together for 24 hours, but we support each other and rely on each other to make ourselves happy and each other happy.
There is no 100% suitable person in this world, but as long as you have a 100% love for each other, there is nothing to get through. Break up after graduation? It doesn't exist. We still have a lifetime.
2. Be the best you can and give each other the love they need most.
Many people say that women lose the initiative in love from the first day of full-time. Others say that if a woman wants to be the best, she must have her own career and can't give up anything for her family.
But at this point, Bao Lei gave you a good demonstration. After marriage, although she gave up her acting career and became a "full-time wife" in everyone's eyes, she is actually good at managing money. Through financial management, Lu Yi's money has doubled in recent years.
And she's good at living. Judging from the photos in her Weibo, she is a very interesting woman. Of course, Bao Lei is well maintained, and the photo with her two daughters is like a sister flower.
Another point is that Bao Lei has a good personality. It can be seen from various reality shows that she is seldom impatient and can solve any problems properly. I believe there is no man who doesn't like a gentle, virtuous, knowledgeable and capable woman like her.
Seriously, such women are the smartest, because they know where their strengths lie, how to be the best themselves, and what their men want.
There are many girls around me, who always mistakenly think that men just like beautiful and enchanting girls, completely ignoring their own advantages and starting to go to the other extreme.
But, ah, you will only become less and less like yourself. If you want to be a winner in life, you must first know how to live.
I have a good friend, Xia Xia, who has been married for so many years and is very happy. Handsome husband loves her so much that those who think she is not worthy of her husband will cheat on her will shut up.
Everyone asked her what the secret of running a marriage was. She said that's because she knows what her husband wants, and she knows that no one can give him what he wants except herself.
You see, this is the confidence and confidence that a woman can be happy. Therefore, if you want to talk about a love that never breaks up, you must know what you want and what the other person wants, because only in this way can you really grasp your happiness and not let go.
3. Have a sense of border, a sense of responsibility, never leave, and live and die together.
Good feelings must be loyal to each other and willing to give up many things for each other. Lu Yi and Bao Lei have never had an affair for so many years, because they both love each other enough and are willing to refuse those temptations for each other.
Yu Xia and Yolanda, although they used to walk around, finally recognized each other and held hands with each other. In the days that followed, they walked forward with undivided attention.
I think that a beautiful love may go through ups and downs, but in the end, it depends on the joint efforts of two people. Many couples who broke up after graduation are unwilling to give up everything for each other, and always hope that the other party can pay more for themselves. In the end, it can only make their feelings come to an end.
But you see, those campus couples who can go to the end must have been thinking about each other, preferring to give up what they have in front of them and strive for a long-term future.
You must remember that there will be too many twists and turns and temptations on the emotional road. As long as you waver a little, you may lose this best relationship.
Therefore, if campus couples want to go to the end, they must be more determined and work harder than others.
The saddest thing in this world is to meet the person who wants to promise her the most when you are least able to be responsible. But I want to say that if such feelings can come to the end, it will be the greatest luck in this life.
In the graduation season, I hope every couple on campus can stick to it and work hard again. You must remember that no matter how difficult it is, you can't compare with your love for each other. As long as you are firm enough and the other person has courage, then you can move towards the future, from school uniforms to wedding dresses, from now to forever.