1, with complementary personalities
In marriage, two people with similar personalities may not be attracted to each other, but complementary personalities can bring them together. Male Jia's personality is relatively strong, her master is steady, and she pursues career success, while Kwai Shui's female is intelligent and gentle, and has no independent mind. Therefore, in terms of personality, these two kinds of people can complement each other, and the chances of attracting each other are greater and more predestined.
Everyone is enterprising.
Although Kwai Shui woman is gentle and approachable on the surface, she actually has a strong enterprising spirit and is more committed to the strong combination of material and thought. However, Mrs Jia is pragmatic and has a strong desire to succeed in his career. The same dedication can make two people have the same ideals and goals. Both of them are activists, have a high degree of tacit understanding at work and have the same concept after marriage.
3, complementary appearance
As far as appearance is concerned, Jia's appearance is not very outstanding, but she is mostly in good shape, tall and strong, and has strong sports cells. Guishui women are weak in appearance, but they are also good at sports, and most of them are outstanding in appearance. The combination of the two can be said to be a match made in heaven. From the external conditions, it is still a good match, and both parties are more confident after marriage.
4. Contradictions and differences
Although male Jia and female Kwai Shui are equal in many conditions, and their personalities seem to match, the marriage relationship is not so simple. Male Jia pursues a clear goal, and will be satisfied with the status quo after reaching the goal, while female Kwai Shui decides her efforts according to her own mood, and the goal is vague. Because of the trivial matters in married life, there are many contradictions and differences, and neither of them is good at expressing them.
5. Not strong feelings
In the combination of male Anjiamu and female Guishui, the external cause is greater than the internal cause. The two have been together for a long time, and the female Kuishui is easily bored and lacks freshness, but she wants something else, while the male Anjamu is content with the status quo and does not accept change. Their feelings are not strong enough, and eventually it is easy for a third party to intervene, leading to the breakdown of marriage and the end of divorce. But even after the divorce, these two combinations will not turn against each other, but will gladly accept them.