The male is born with fire in the furnace, and the female is born with wood. Wood generates fire, and the five elements are in harmony; the ninth house is in the middle, which is normal.
On the whole, your marriage is acceptable. It is a moderate marriage. Congratulations.
Your Italian month is April and October in the lunar calendar.
The auspicious dates for weddings in 2013 on the lunar calendar are as follows:
The fifth day of the first lunar month (for snakes); the tenth of the second lunar month (for dragons) and the thirteenth (for sheep); and the second day of March Ten (for Sheep); April 10 (for Rabbit), Eleventh (for Dragon), Twenty-one (for Tiger), Twenty-two (for Rabbit); May (none); June 11 (for Rabbit), The twenty-first day of the lunar month (for the Ox); the fourteenth day of July (for the Rat); the tenth day of August (for the Ox) and the twenty-first day (for the Rat); the sixteenth day of September (for the Ox) and the twenty-sixth day of the month (for the Pig); the sixth day of October (contrast monkey), the eighth day (contrast dog), the nineteenth day (contrast chicken), the twenty-first day (contrast pig); the twenty-sixth day of the winter month (contrast dog), the twenty-seventh day (contrast pig); the sixth day of the twelfth lunar month (contrast sheep), The eighth day of the lunar month (chicken).
These are the best auspicious days for marriage, and there is nothing better. Any other day is lacking.
I have calculated the above content based on the "Tongshu". It is up to you to believe it or not. I will never force anyone to do so.