About the problem of recognizing parents.

Superstition is a common folk custom in Chengdu. Children who are ill and difficult to take care of are considered to have committed the "sand-keeping" (encounter difficulties or evil spirits), so we should find a family member (calculated by the five elements) for our children, that is, michel platini, commonly known as "worship", and usually find relatives and friends. At that time, the parents of the children should prepare gifts and take them to worship michel platini and the godmother. Then michel platini will name the children and give them money and things.

There is also a collision with michel platini, commonly known as "insurance", "hitting a bridge" and "shooting the arrow of a general". The fortune teller first selects the place (usually the bridge), and then prepares dining tables, incense sticks, bamboo bows and arrows, etc. When I met the first adult man, I stopped to recognize michel platini, saying that the child was guilty of "shutting down evil spirits" and was not easy to take. He asked to use archery to "drive away evil spirits", and then made a toast to michel platini, and the children bowed down. Michel platini gave the children an auspicious name and money. After the ceremony, they parted ways. Some will be regarded as relatives who will leave later.

Mother's musical instruments bring moist rain to all people in the world, and family fatigue has a heavy breath, so the future of children belongs to father's education. I have read comments that most children are smart and can withstand the impact and tempering of the world, which may be the reason. Under the guidance of this concept, the family is actually the pioneer of the school. Without the guidance and support of the family, the school outside this house has more or less lost the flavor of educating children and shaping the pillars of the country, and has become one of the commercial products. Instead of exchanging things for hearts, it has shaped the soul of the country and respected people. Because of the different physiological structure, men are free and broad, and they have relatively more concepts about what they have seen, heard, met and taken risks, which are indispensable for the next generation of family discipline. Thus, a unique scene of recognizing michel platini appeared in folk customs and traditions.

Jiaozuo News Network News Adoption of father and mother is called "michel platini (big) and godmother" in old Jiaozuo. In the past, people thought that children adopted their parents for good care, especially those with many children or poor families. The reason was that children from families with children, like flocks of small animals, grew up easily. There are generally more children in poor families, who are not effeminate, but will grow up; There are also two parents who recognize each other's children as adopted sons and daughters in order to enhance the feelings of the two families and have more relatives. All parts of the country have the habit of recognizing relatives, but the manners and customs are different. Now let's talk about the etiquette and custom of "recognizing michel platini and godmother" in old Jiaozuo.

The old Jiaozuo people think that recognizing dopted mother and michel platini will be unfavorable to dopted mother and michel platini's own biological children, so they are not close friends and never dare to agree to strangers' demands; Moreover, the two sides should give gifts to each other and hold banquets. Every year, after three festivals and two birthdays, all godsons and goddaughters should give gifts, and Michelle Platini and godmother should return gifts, so they can't afford entertainment.

It is a happy event to recognize the godmother, so it is natural to choose an auspicious day for the ceremony. On that day, the child's biological parents should prepare a banquet and a gift for the child to pay tribute to michel platini and dopted mother. The most important thing about this gift is michel platini's hat, dopted mother's shoes and materials. Michel platini and dopted mother will also send some gifts to their adopted sons and daughters. There must be a rice bowl, chopsticks and a longevity lock, as well as a set of small clothes, shoes and socks, hats, bibs, stomachs and so on. Rich people always order silver bowls and chopsticks in jewelry stores, or they go to temples to buy wooden bowls. Never use porcelain bowls to avoid being broken by children, which is unlucky. The ceremony for ordinary people to recognize their relatives is much simpler because the economy is not well off. As long as the children formally kowtow to michel platini and dopted mother, change their names to michel platini and dopted mother, and exchange symbolic gifts, it will be over. If the child is young and particularly delicate when recognizing the dopted mother, then when recognizing the dopted mother, the dopted mother will put on a particularly fat red trousers and sit on the kang, and others will hold the child out of the crotch, indicating that it is the same as their own children. Then the godmother will bring him a longevity lock and give him a nickname, and then he will eat with the plates and chopsticks given by michel platini's godmother. It means: it is his children who eat his food, not his biological parents. From then on, with the blessing of michel platini and dopted mother, they will be able to live a long and healthy life.

I think people recognize affection, first for children, and second for embellishing their own lives, before they come up with various ways to find excitement and relieve loneliness. So this kind of thing is really caused by superstition, but it also has a strong human touch. In modern society, people's contacts are more frequent than before, and the economy is much richer. The phenomenon of recognizing relatives seems to be more than before, but there is no superstition anymore, just to decorate life, and the procedures are much simpler. For example, my son has recognized three michel platini (all my good friends) and a godmother (my wife's good friends), and my husband and wife have also recognized an adopted son and an adopted daughter, and they only acknowledge each other verbally, so that adults and children can often walk around each other during holidays and holidays, which will add some feelings.