Marianne's father died the year before last. She was closest to her father before her death. She wants to take her baby to visit the grave when she is in Tomb-Sweeping Day. She told her father that she worked hard for many years and finally got pregnant. She wanted to give her father a grandson, but her mother-in-law kept stopping her, saying that pregnant women were not allowed to go to the grave and would rush to the fetal god. Xiaojie also encountered the same problem. He wants to take his nearly one-year-old son to visit his parents' graves. Mother-in-law also said that children are not suitable for grave-sweeping, but Tomb-Sweeping Day's grave-sweeping is a cautious death for Chinese people.
Huang Fengyi, a numerologist, said that children may not sweep graves. There is no problem without pathogens, but pregnant women's fetal spirit is unknown, so it is better to avoid committing pathogens.
In many places, including hospitals and cemeteries, people will say "children are too young to go" and "be careful when you are pregnant". But Tomb-Sweeping Day is coming, and many Lingta are as chic as hotels. Children and pregnant women should have nothing to do with sweeping graves. Huang Fengyi said that there is nothing wrong with his relatives and ancestors, but there are other gods in the spiritual bone tower or cemetery. The difference between the beautiful spiritual bone tower and the traditional cemetery is just like some people live in bungalows and some people live in tall buildings, so ghosts are still ghosts. If the constitution is really unsuitable, don't make a taboo.
Can children go to the grave and the hospital? Actually, it all depends on whether there is a "curse". Even children related to the curse can't go to the grave. Some people are three years old, some are seven, and most of them are in their teens. Whether it is related to the curse or not can be checked by the eight characters.
The horoscope can be found in the "monthly branch", which is based on the month of birth and compared with the time of birth. For example, if you were born in silver moon in January of the lunar calendar, then compare it with the time of birth. In addition, it can also be found in the solar column, that is, based on the solar branch of the Tiangong map, and compared with the time of birth. The third method is to find it from the earthly branch of the solar column, that is, the solar branch of the Tiangong map.
If there is a "100-day pass", it is best not to go out 100 days after birth. If there is a "deep water pass", don't go near the river or the pool. Tomb-Sweeping Day and Tanabata don't worship, so you can keep safe. Those who walk the "Five Ghosts Pass" should beware of falls, don't see the mountains being buried fiercely or take the old coffin board, and don't attend grave-sweeping in childhood. Those who commit "burial" should avoid watching the funeral to ensure safety. I've committed the "gate of hell" and I can't go far. Don't take chances in all temples and palaces, and at the same time, don't take chances to enter the house of fierce filial piety.
Those who commit the "death penalty" should not watch the sudden death. The newly-built temple palace, underground palace, Purdue in the Central Plains and the altar in the Central Plains are all inaccessible. Those who violate the "Biography of Monks" are not allowed to enter the altar, mourn the house, see the monks in the monk temple, or make incense in the temple. People who commit the "custom of heartbroken" should avoid watching the horrible scenes of killing to ensure safety. Other people born in July, August, September, December, at noon, at the end of the month, commit the "crown of Yan". They are also forbidden to travel by car, away from funeral homes, cemeteries, mass graves, coffin shops, temples, Buddhist ceremonies and worship.
Huang Fengyi said, "You can check after the child is born, and you don't have to worry about sweeping the grave. On the contrary, "pregnant women have a fetal god, but the fetal god is unknown, and unborn children should not be in contact with people in the underworld." If it is affected, pregnant women are prone to miscarriage and their children will die, so it is really recommended not to go to the grave in vain. "If a close relative has just passed away, other funeral personnel can wear spells or special linen to block it.
Some people may say that "this is too superstitious", but from a medical point of view, pregnant women are inconvenient to move and are most afraid of falling accidents. The spiritual bone tower or cemetery is generally far from home, pregnant women are tired of rowing, or burning incense and gold paper when sweeping the grave are not suitable for pregnant women, so pay attention.