Most mothers start paying attention to their diet the moment they find out they are pregnant, and so does Liu Zhen. As an advanced pregnant woman, she refrained from her favorite ice cream and coffee during pregnancy; most mothers, After the birth of her child, she became afraid of falling, and so did Liu Zhen, so she slowed down her life, danced less, and focused on her family and children.
After her daughter Ni Ni’s 4th birthday, Liu Zhen underwent traditional aortic valve replacement surgery due to severe aortic stenosis. Due to poor recovery of cardiac function, an artificial lung and a right coronary stent were placed successively. Brain embolism and bleeding occurred in late February and early March, causing an increase in brain pressure and requiring craniotomy and decompression surgery. During the torturous days, her husband Xin Long played his daughter’s recording to Liu Zhen every day: ‘Mom, get well soon and take me to school! ’ Liu Zhen, who was in a coma, shed tears as she listened, which made people feel sorry for her concern for her daughter. Unfortunately, he passed away at 22:22 pm on March 22.
Xin Long’s manager Wu Zongxian made a statement on behalf of the grieving Xin Long in the afternoon: Thank you for everyone’s concern... Xin Long is so sad that he only has 4 words to convey: Tear Heartbroken.
After all, on the couple's sweet "Double Day" on the 22nd, Liu Zhen failed to resist the test of God and could no longer go shopping with her daughter in mother-daughter clothes.
How do we face the sudden changes in world affairs and the death of loved ones? Face your grief, face your children, face yourself? Is it necessary to express condolences? Be sad! People's ultimate emotions need to be expressed. Sadness is a natural reaction. There is no need to deliberately suppress or over-suffer. Whether it's crying or shouting, give yourself a period of sad time to vent, and then collect your emotions and stand up. As long as you don't indulge and sink, there is no need. It’s related!
It may take a long time to get rid of the heartache of missing you. This is because of love! Because after you have loved, you will miss them. This is a very sweet moment, so when the memories come back, press the pause button for yourself, miss them as much as you like, and then finish by filling your mind with the best smile of the other person. You will find that , painful and happy!
It will also take a long time to face the environment and belongings of the deceased, so just let it go! When you can pick it up again, slowly sort it out, sort out the living environment you want for yourself and your children, and start over.
If the child is still young, he may not understand what is going on. If he is older, he may not know how to express the soreness and pain in his heart. Older children may be depressed or even angry. Therefore, it is important to spend time with your children and don’t be shy about being sad in front of your children. For children who cannot speak yet, drawing is the best way to express themselves. Even if they are scribbling, paper and pen can convey their moods; for older children, share their moods to guide them to speak, or through sports Allow emotions to be vented. You will find that in the process of accompanying your children, you are also healed.
You never know which one of the accident or tomorrow will come first, so don’t let yourself have regrets. When facing your children or relatives and friends, don’t be polite with love, gratitude, and praise, and express them promptly without hesitation. Pity! The deceased is gone, but the road still has to go on. For ourselves, our children, and our families, we hold each other's hands tightly and walk together.