What should I do if I can't keep my name down?
What should I do if I can't keep my name down? The child's name is the first gift that parents give to their children in life, but it's often hard to get a name in life. After all, a good name is a walking card for children. What should I do if I can't keep my name down? What should I do if the name can't be suppressed? 1. What should I do if the name is too big?
First, try not to use too big a name, such as using the allusions of ancient Chinese celebrities. Such a name is too overbearing and will bring too much pressure to children, which will easily affect their future fortune and achievements. Second, if you must use a name that is too big, but you are worried that children can't hold it down, you can take a nickname that sounds easy to feed, such as Xiaohua, Doudou and Fanfan, to stabilize the balance and coordination of life.
2. Which names are too big
First of all, names with the title of emperor or their country names are not desirable, such as Huizong, Xiaozong, Qianlong, Jiaqing and Shunzhi, which are unbearable names for children. Secondly, words with natural phenomena should also be used carefully. Nature is mysterious, and it is difficult for human beings to control the weather. It is also inappropriate to use them in names, such as sky, thunder, mountains and sea.
3. Can the word Chen be suppressed by ordinary people?
Chen originally refers to the eaves and houses, but in our traditional culture, Chen generally refers to the place where the ancient kings and emperors lived, and is also the pronoun of the emperor, symbolizing a noble person who is in a high position with golden branches and jade leaves. As a name, it has great implications, and it is difficult for ordinary children to suppress it, so it should be used with caution when naming.
4. Name the 36 most taboo words
There are many taboos in naming words. First of all, don't use words that symbolize disasters and diseases, such as illness, pain, injury, injury, scar, loss, independence, damage, bad, disaster, pain, death, fatigue, illness and illness. Don't use words with bad meanings, such as: rotten, begging, worrying, hating, Jude, poor, poor, depressed and widowed. Unusual words are also taboo in naming, such as: Fu, Fu, Fu, Qu, Fu, Fu, Fu, Fu, Fu, Fu and Fu. What should I do if my name can't be suppressed? 2
Misunderstanding of children's names
First, I don't need uncommon words
Some parents may think that uncommon words are cool and dazzling, and adopting uncommon words may indeed reduce the probability of duplicate names, but it may increase the mental burden on children. There is a male classmate named dá among Mei Ma's classmates. Ordinary people are blinded by this "Dá". How do you pronounce this word? Halfway through, I don't know how to read it, but I suddenly suppress it as "hello" or directly say "this classmate", and Qinglan becomes an "unknown" classmate.
That's nothing. Qing Hu told me that the real pain is writing this word, especially in kindergarten and grade one or two of primary school. The surname "Qing" has many strokes for a child of four or five years old, and it takes five or six minutes to write the name every time. Later, when I read junior high school and senior high school, although my writing speed was much faster, it was still a headache for him when I met a day when I was either taking a test or imitating.
Anyway, naming children with uncommon words will not only increase their burden, but also cause harm to their pure mind. Yeah, who likes a name that others can't say, and who likes to write a smelly and long name?
Second, don't take a woman's name for a man, and a woman's name for a man
Men are masculine and women are feminine. There is a difference between men and women. Giving a boy a name that is too feminine will attract people's ridicule. I remember that a male client was laughed at by several colleagues for a long time because his name was very feminine. Although these colleagues didn't laugh at him face to face, it is enough to see how much trouble this feminine name usually brings him. By the same token, women's adoption of masculine names will only increase their troubles.
Third, the name should not be too vulgar.
Some parents are very casual about choosing names, and they can call them whatever they want, or go with the flow. Others call them "a certain phoenix", so do they, and others call them "Zi Han", so do they. Too tacky or "bad street" names will not only be rejected by children, but also be too common for others to remember. There is a colleague named "Hongmei", and she particularly rejects her own name. She said that wherever she goes, she will meet several Hongmei, so she wants us to call her a nickname. What should I do if my name can't be suppressed? 3
What's the phenomenon of my name being suppressed?
It doesn't match the five elements and eight characters.
Names all carry beautiful meanings, but according to my birthdates and five elements, it doesn't mean that the bigger the name, the better. For example, the word "Xin" has three golds, but if the individual's five elements carry a lot of gold, then the name "Revival" will make the individual develop in the opposite direction. The so-called "extremes meet, moderation is the best" is the truth.
beyond one's tolerance
As the saying goes, "I can't resist", which means that some things are beyond one's control and control. Words with too big a meaning mean "unable to resist" to many people who are weak in numerology and only want to live in peace. A person with a small head, if an oversized and overweight hat is forcibly buckled on his head, may be too heavy to lift his head, and may be covered with his eyes and lose his way. A name that is too big may have a similar effect.
Giving people pressure
Words such as Tian, Hao, Yi, Yu, Long, Wang, ... have relatively large meanings in themselves, and when combined, they give people a more unusual feeling. Too big a name not only embodies the ardent hopes of family members, but also makes all those who see these names have a kind of expectation for the owner of the name, and the expectation will be higher. For children, this is equivalent to shouldering heavy responsibilities from an early age, and they should always be prepared to meet various challenges, which causes great psychological pressure on them and is not very beneficial to their healthy growth.
What words are too big to use
can be understood from the perspective of the Book of Changes.
The Book of Changes is headed by the divination of Gan and Kun, which symbolizes the beginning of chaos and the creation of the world, and then everything is gradually generated between heaven and earth. Dry hexagrams dominate yang and initiative, while Kun hexagrams dominate yin and quietness. Positive is healthy, and yang is dominant in movement, which is constant, and its movement is endless, so the restless yang is the first.
Gangua represents heaven,
Kungua represents earth.
Departing from hexagrams represents the day,
Kangua represents the month.
The divination represents thunder, and
the divination represents wind.
the divinatory symbol represents the mountain, and
the divinatory symbol represents the sea.
In this universe, these eight phenomena are the biggest, and these eight phenomena are beyond human control and change. Since it is a phenomenon that cannot be controlled by human beings, as a small person in the universe, we should not use these eight phenomena to name it: heaven, earth, sun, moon, wind, thunder, mountains and sea. If you have to use something you can't control, it's easy to have an accident.
How to judge whether the words are too big
Try to avoid using the words in the names of people who are rich and expensive, such as the emperor, especially the very special and unusual words, and don't use the same or homophonic names as these people, for example, don't use the words Yao Shunyu. Of course, you'd better not name your child Zhang Ganlong or Kan-Hee Lee.
Whether a name is big or not depends mainly on the meaning of the name, rather than thinking that the name is big at the sight of a certain word in an isolated and mechanical way.
The most typical word is "Tian". Many people think that a name with Tian in it is big. Actually, it's not like this at all. It depends on the meaning of the name. For example, Haotian and Tianjiao are really big in meaning, and some of them are too ostentatious, while China people always advocate moderation and low-key, so this name is not suitable.