Parents are very picky about moving graves and being buried together. Many people will move their ancestral graves, be buried together and repair graves when they are in Tomb-Sweeping Day, and many of them are particular about it. Let's follow me to see the relevant knowledge about parents moving to the grave and burying together, hoping to help everyone.
It is one of the ancient customs for parents to move graves and pay attention to 1 burial. Simply put, the husband and wife are buried together after death, which is called joint burial. Generally speaking, husband and wife are buried together. After the death of the older generation, many people want to be buried with their other half.
But generally speaking, the husband and wife have died. If we want to be buried together, it involves the geomantic problem of moving the grave together.
Matters needing attention in parents' joint burial
1. When can we be buried together?
Usually, if grandparents' graves are not buried together, parents' graves are generally not buried together. Generally speaking, it is best not to move the tomb casually. There is a saying in Feng Shui that "the rich don't move their graves, and the poor don't knock".
2. Where are they buried together
Parents' graves are buried together, and the terrain is excellent. If the shape of Yang cemetery is better than that of Yin material, it will be buried with Yang. If the shape of the yin cemetery is better than that of the yang material, they will be buried together. If you don't talk, women must be men. Priority decisions should not be used against them.
3. How to be buried together
Regardless of the quality of the pipe, after the material is moved, dig the blood and soil at the bottom of the original material to a depth of one foot and five inches before moving it into a new bottom hole, and then put the material.
Good materials will move the subsoil to the new well. If inferior materials are not used and bones are found piled up, the bones must be put away and moved away. When a new well enters the well, the bones must be put in place, with the skull on the head, the foot bones on the feet and the bones in the middle.
Explain that when raw materials are removed, they must be stored in a basket and picked in a new well. It is not allowed to scatter on the road. If you plant the soil, expose it to the sun or tread lightly at night, it is disrespectful to the bones and bodies of your ancestors. Secondly, when the basket is used for storage, it should be covered with something, and it is not allowed to be exposed to the sun or blown by the wind.
When moving the bones, be sure to ask the brothers or cousins of the deceased, that is, people of the same age, to pick up the bones and put them there. Servants have no right to take them and leave them there at will.
4, the bottom of the buried material should be smooth.
No matter whether men or women are buried together, the bottom of the material must be flat, and it is not allowed to be high in the sun and low in the shade. If parents have children and grandchildren and no daughters, they must be flat and not buried indiscriminately.
If parents have no children and grandchildren, then the bottom of female material can be higher than that of male material, but give her a happy sum of money to make her fat.
Parents moved to the grave and were buried together.
1, choose an auspicious day
Before moving the grave, we must first choose an auspicious day, and the choice of auspicious day is very important. Don't be beaten by wind and rain, and don't be trampled by wild animals or other things. Therefore, whether it is moving a grave or building a new grave, it is not advisable to stop work in the middle of the grave digging process and should be completed on the same day.
2. Before moving the grave, inspect the ancestral grave.
Before moving the grave, it is most important to inspect the ancestral grave and find the location of the dragon cave. The position and depth of the grave are very important, so it is best to have professional Feng Shui guidance before moving the grave, and the whole process of moving the grave should not be underestimated.
3. Avoid magnetic sundries when moving graves.
Do not put mahogany products, cinnabar, metal sharp tools, realgar and other things. When buried, the magnetic field is too large or chaotic. Otherwise, it will affect the sleep of ancestors and the fortune of future generations.
4. Move graves to avoid pollution
When moving a grave, it is not advisable to ask someone with bad fortune recently for help. You must ask a friend with a particularly good relationship for help, because the inner hall of the grave should avoid dirt, phlegm, garbage and snot. Otherwise, it is disrespect for ancestors and will directly affect the fortune of future generations.
5, avoid the zodiac
It is not appropriate to put the zodiac into the inner hall during burial. Otherwise, it will easily lead to the collision between the zodiac and the gods and descendants.
6. Don't move the tomb when you meet Kyrgyzstan.
When moving the tomb, if you see turtles, snakes and vines wrapped around the coffin in the tomb, then it is very auspicious in feng shui. At this time, you can't move the tomb, nor should you destroy the auspicious appearance of your ancestors.
7. Five taboos for moving graves
(1) Avoid hard rocks to show the poverty and hardship of the younger generation, also known as Yak Land; This situation, commonly known as a hard cone, is an ominous sign.
(2) Avoid seeing bad water, because rushing to the back of the dead is "bath water", which has a negative trend for the younger generation; This situation, commonly known as soft cone, is unlucky.
(3) avoid adding coffins to coffins, which is harmful to the deceased or local division; This situation is commonly known as the dead cone and unlucky phenomenon.
(4) avoid seeing ants, because ants eat the flesh and blood of the dead, which is harmful to the younger generation; This situation, commonly known as the living cone, has a great influence on future generations.
(5) Avoid the cold wind tunnel, test whether there is a wind tunnel method, light candles next to the tunnel, such as Geely's tomb pit, and fix the lamp holder. It is unlucky to enter the wind tunnel if the lights go out. In this case, it is necessary to use this grave and smell it, such as milk, which is very auspicious for future generations, and it is not very auspicious to have an odor.
8, the soil of the old tomb to the new tomb.
When moving the cemetery, you should dig eight inches of blood and soil under the original coffin, then put it in a clean bag and move it to a new cemetery. We must never let the original soil be left on the road to be trampled on. This is disrespectful to our ancestors and is not conducive to the fortune of future generations.
9, the old tomb ominous theory
If mud, water, tree roots, termites, etc. It will be good luck to enter the ancient tomb. If you see ivory black after opening the coffin, this phenomenon will be a huge disaster, which will directly affect future generations and will undoubtedly lead to orphans, widows, lunatics, dumb people, fornication and the disabled.
When I moved the tomb, I opened the coffin and found the bones of the immortal, Huang Chengcheng's, showing wealth and enriching the people, and the descendants of the king thrived.
10, warm wells are needed to move graves.
After the grave is dug, warm the well before moving in. Warm well is to lay a multi-layer yellow paper on the underground plane, put coins on the yellow paper, and then sprinkle rosin foam on the yellow paper to ignite, commonly known as warm well.
This is to express gratitude for the cultivation of immortals during their lifetime, to express filial piety, and to warm the well and make good luck come quickly. Therefore, honoring immortals in exchange for immortals can help future generations get good luck.
1 1, pay attention to the arrangement of burial.
Burial should be arranged in primary and secondary order, and the gossip is recorded as the upper position the day after tomorrow, that is, the upper position in the east and the lower position in the west; The northeast is superior and the southwest is inferior; North is superior and south is inferior; Northwest is superior, southeast is inferior. If one wife and two wives are buried, the husband should be in the upper position, followed by the first wife and the second wife.
12, the main principles of mourning
First, when the local department goes to the host's house to hold a funeral, it is necessary to write a funeral message and post it at the gate, and then write the date of the funeral, June 7, the 100-day period, and post it at the gate. When you look up, write a funeral letter to your loved ones or write a funeral letter to you. Pay attention to the funeral message written to you in red paper and the funeral message written to a family in white paper.
13, moving to an older tomb pays attention to feng shui.
If the deceased has a long life and the coffin plate in the cemetery can't be completely moved, then it is necessary to find someone the same age as the deceased to pick up the bone white by hand. The younger generation of the deceased can't pick up the bone white of the elders by hand. It is not advisable to shovel up bones and soil together with tools such as shovels, which is disrespectful to ancestors.
Pay attention to your parents' burial. 2. Precautions for burial in the tomb.
First, whether you are moving a grave or building a new grave, you must choose an auspicious moment when you start digging. This is crucial. More importantly, after digging out the grave, don't stop for a few days before burial, so as not to be destroyed by wild animals or wind, rain and sun.
Second, ask someone to help, ask your very good friends to help, and the people who do things must not dirty the inner hall (grave). In particular, it is forbidden to spit, throw dirty things and wipe your nose in the inner hall.
3. Don't put the animals of the Zodiac into the inner hall casually during burial, so as not to conflict with the birth dates of his ancestors and descendants, which will have a negative impact.
Four, when buried, do not put mahogany products, cinnabar, metal sharp weapon, realgar and other evil spirits. These things have a great magnetic field, which will affect the lives of ancestors and bring bad luck to future generations. Be careful!
5. If one of the old people dies first and the other one is still alive, the urn buried first should be covered separately as far as possible, that is to say, the urn buried first should be sealed with a separate cover, so there is no need to disturb the original one when burying another one in the future. Try to move as little as possible
Six, other matters, generally in accordance with local customs, each place has its own customs, must be respected.
Of course, there are many minor problems. Some netizens will ask, do you want to avoid the big and small months when choosing the date of burial?
In fact, choosing a date is not that simple. It is also necessary to know the animal sign of children and grandchildren and the orientation of graves, which are all related. Therefore, some people can choose the date, but not everyone can choose the time of burial, grave removal and burial. To complete the burial, grave sweeping or burial, to benefit future generations or to benefit yourself, it is still necessary to invite professional Feng Shui masters to truly achieve the goal.