This time, I almost believed it!
Because in the past year, great changes have taken place in my life, which is not smooth. For example, I resigned in April and found several jobs, but they didn't last long until autumn approached, that is, when summer was almost over and the energy of the five elements of fire gradually disappeared. (From the traditional numerology, what I fear most in my eight-character life is the fire in the five elements. )
This year, I experienced unpredictable setbacks and bumps, loss and anxiety, and saw my friends who used to be brothers, one by one indifferent. At the same time, I also saw my persistence in cognition and values, and became the object of contempt, ridicule and negotiation by many people.
Most importantly, I also saw my ceiling and shortcomings.
All this, together, becomes the whole experience of 20 17!
This year, many times, I will look at the water of Jinji Lake and reflect on it alone. Is it true that human destiny is such a play, and a so-called animal year will make me so vulnerable?
At a certain moment, I really shook my belief and cognition and felt that I was wrong!
Even in one night, I will feel unprecedented anxiety!
Where is the road?
I am a person who loves learning very much, and I am also used to deep thinking and analysis. I will master what I am not proficient in, and then I will express my opinion. For example, I searched a lot of Zhouyi, physiognomy, numerology, tarot, astrology and even Taoism for the word "animal year", and I didn't have a fundamental understanding of my own experience until I found its root.
"If life is made up of reincarnation, I think twelve years is not so much a hurdle as a complete rebirth! 』
From the perspective of life science, the animal year is neither completely bad nor completely good, but when heavenly stems and earthly branches coincides with his horoscope, some of his own characteristics will be released doubly, and at the same time, the surrounding environment will change. This is probably the so-called idealism that what you see is what you get. So at some point in my life, I went to extremes and there were great changes!
As for whether this variable is good or not, it depends on your own grasp and fortune.
For example, Ma Yun once told a story. In the first few years after he founded Alibaba, he found a friend to invest in Alipay. That friend said this year is my animal year, forget it. As a result, his friend lost an excellent investment opportunity.
From this perspective, the change of the animal year is really a coexistence of challenges and opportunities!
For another example, Lei Jun had a hard time starting a business in his own animal year and changed careers several times. Finally, in this animal year, after walking out of the trough of Xiaomi, we shouted the slogan that 654.38 billion+000 billion is just a small target.
In this example, I have a deeper understanding of the animal year.
I have always felt that there must be profound truth in the saying that it has been circulated for thousands of years, otherwise it will not be circulated for thousands of years or even decades.
Similarly, China's ancient numerology, as well as the statement of the year of birth, is bound to have metaphysical rationality.
"Just, how to look at this year objectively has become a topic in my life! 』
If we say that the present moment at a certain point in my life is the stock of all past survival experiences and the realization of all past accumulation, then in the third 12 years of my life, all my experiences at 20 17 are just a causal cycle.
If the moment I typed this word on the keyboard, that is, the year of birth is about to disappear, and the new twelve years are coming, I only saw the depression of my own value and the ceiling of my life from an ending year, then this 20 17 is particularly abrupt, which makes me have to think, summarize and answer, and finally know what I am right and what I am wrong.
"The reflection of all this is actually a cause and effect, but in the law of negation of negation, it becomes another cycle, another beginning, another coordinate! 』
Zen says that you can't get your past experience, your present experience and your future experience!
So, what's available?
I think what I can get is to re-examine my heart, polish my cognition, establish my relationship, and have a brand-new self in the next twelve years!
Criticize yourself and believe in yourself at the same time. This may be the test question that fate will give each of us in this animal year!
Once upon a time, a master told me the story of the diamond in the crown:
There is a diamond, very big and shiny, which is a rare treasure!
It was dug up by a miner and sold to a wealthy businessman. The rich businessman got the diamond and sold it to a nobleman. The nobleman got the diamond and gave it to the king.
The king has this diamond and wears it on his crown. However, it was coveted by a larger empire. Finally, the country was destroyed, and diamonds were set in their crowns by the emperors of the empire.
In this story, the value of diamonds is immeasurable. However, the first miner who got it sold it to the rich merchant at a relatively low price, and the rich merchant sold it to the aristocrat, who didn't give the king a penny.
However, the king lost his country and life because of this diamond.
In the end, the emperor not only got diamonds, but also conquered a kingdom by the way!
The problem is that everyone in this value chain has a real chance to get this diamond. Why did the emperor finally get it?
"The answer is actually very simple, because the emperor is most qualified to get it! 』
A valuable thing will flow continuously in the value chain until it reaches the person who best matches its value.
Therefore, if you want to have a good life and beautiful things, the best way is to constantly improve your value, so as to attract the best!
From this perspective, the animal year suddenly became a false proposition!
Because if there are bottlenecks and valleys in life, it is also their relative lack of value, thus creating a sense of futility.
All this is not necessarily related to the time point once every twelve years.
"Then, determine a correct cognition and persevere in the passage of time. The final value will accumulate again, setting the coordinates for the next growth point of life. 』
The so-called futility is just growth and polishing before success. Stick to it, all the efforts will produce compound interest in time, and the final feedback is your own growth beyond linearity!
The price of life is reflected by value, and value is the ability to create the future. From this perspective, values have been reshaped.
In this year, I read 32 books, listened to 12 lectures, met dozens of big coffees, copied Buddhist scriptures for 500 times, studied astrology, took 3,200 notes, opened an official WeChat account, redefined my IP direction in Zhihu and Shanghai, watched 40 projects, contacted joint office, and wrote a complete commercial real estate plan from the perspective of Party B for the first time. I started a brand-new job, systematically summed up my methodology and worldview, realized the difference between friendship and business more deeply, got a brand-new understanding and cognition of my major, and had a conversation with a person whose worth is indescribable. ...
"This is the animal year, indescribable, simple at a glance!
The future is very long, thank you for getting rid of the realization of self-description this year!
20 17, thank you! 』