You can read Buddhist scriptures properly, because a person's birth is controlled by the five elements, and a real monk can't control him. Of course, you don't have to become a monk, but you should read more Buddhist scriptures, learn Buddhism appropriately, and show more Buddhist mentality in your life. Because sometimes your mentality will greatly affect your parents' mood. Listen to them and don't make them angry, which can also reduce your resistance to your father. In fact, I don't know much about Buddha, but I know he is kind to people. Don't be obsessed with Buddha, but you can believe it. I am an example, and I am also a father, because I can calculate eight characters. My father has a bad heart, but my personality is also bad (eight characters determine a person's personality, but fate is not completely unchangeable and can be changed within a certain range), which often makes my father angry. My father is prone to make mistakes when he is angry. Don't you think this is one of the reasons why I overcame it? I studied Buddhism and tried to change my mind, which also relieved me a lot. Now I don't make my father angry, but his heart doesn't often go wrong. But because Foucault can only relax by changing his personality. You can find a man who can forgive you, and then recognize a godfather, which brings out the best in each other, and your forgiveness for your father will naturally decrease a lot.
Criticizing the eight characters is definitely not superstition. Please don't comment on things you don't know.