1, not a good teacher
When chatting, if you just want to express your opinions and instill your thoughts into others unilaterally, and don't want others to respond or express their opinions, then write a blog instead of chatting. Life is tired enough, if chatting with friends is still like "expert preaching"? That's really boring.
Step 2 find common topics
As the saying goes, "lovers talk more" means to communicate effectively with people and find common topics. Therefore, the focus of effective communication with people is to find common topics.
Step 3 write a draft
For your communication partner, know the background of the other person in advance, and then draw up a speech according to its characteristics. If the other party is soft, use hard methods, and if the other party is hard, use soft methods. Combine hard and soft, break through each other's psychological defense from all aspects, and achieve the purpose of effective communication.
4. Private conversation
Choose the right place. If you need to tell someone something that is not easy to accept (such as death or breakup), don't do it in public, around colleagues or others. Please respect and think for each other and communicate with them in a private place. Private places also give you an open space for communication and dialogue to ensure the normal two-way communication process.
Step 5 don't blame
Don't get into the habit of blaming others, especially before you know what happened. Many people are more eager to be accepted than to be accused after doing something wrong. Just like what you want after you make a mistake. If you love him, don't blame him