Pregnancy has nothing to do with the death of the elderly or the birth of a child. Feudal thought would think that the pregnant old man died, maybe the child killed the old man, or maybe the child was born as a reborn relative, saying that the child was hard. In fact, birth and death are natural laws, and pregnancy or childbirth will not affect the elderly.
Children's hard life generally means that there are more five elements in the eight characters. In other words, if a person's eight characters are too prosperous, it is also a hard life. For example, some people belong to the five elements of wood, and there are many very prosperous trees in their lives. This situation is said to be difficult. To solve the problem of children's difficult life, we must find a godmother for them, or adopt them for others, or send them to a temple to worship monks as teachers. Some people usually pray for their children and do more good deeds, and some even send their children to temples to be young monks or young monks.
In fact, there is no scientific basis for talking about hard life, so don't believe those folk sayings, don't believe those feudal superstitions, and you must love your children and your family.