"Love is nothing more than hormones and dopamine, and marriage is nothing more than a game like love."
Some people say that once you gamble on love, happiness is a lifetime.
This sentence is also used in long-distance love, which will last a lifetime.
What kind of marriage do you want? You should demand yourself by the standards you want.
So can these really become the most fundamental standards?
0 1. Is it okay to have money?
I once saw a blogger share it, and she said, don't always think about marrying a rich second generation.
Because of the rich second generation who can disco in bars, his ability can only be disco.
I have no ability to make money, so I can only spend my family's money on disco dancing.
What does this sentence mean?
It means that if you want to marry a rich man, fine.
But money is not the only thing.
I once watched a TV play like this.
The man prepared a bride price, which was agreed before the wedding.
But when the bride got off the bus, she told him to pay more.
The man even feels unreasonable. Is it marriage or money?
If women just want money, why don't they earn it and live with it all their lives?
Excessive greed will only annoy others.
So this man called off his wedding with this woman on the spot.
A woman's best friend married a man.
This girlfriend's family condition is also comparable to that of the man, and this girlfriend doesn't have so many contradictions.
Only considering the criteria of having money to choose a spouse will lead to contradictions because of insufficient money. Money is not the only important criterion.
02. Is there a face value?
Many women think that face value is justice.
This face value, including this person is very handsome.
But what does Shuai Neng do? Handsome. Can I eat?
Looking at the face value alone is superficial and internal.
When the short APP was popular.
A friend around me is wearing a red one.
This red is to eat by the face value and make money by the audience.
Later, when he was out of breath and asked for another job, he was unable to do anything else.
As we all know, some things can last for a long time, others can't.
He is in the process of upgrading the internet, especially in the profession of red.
Like Tik Tok and Atto are faster, and thousands of Red Army have been competing. If you are not careful, you may lose flow and powder.
Whether you are red or not means that you have no money to earn, and no money to earn means that you can only quit this industry.
But what can he do after he quits the industry?
My friend's boyfriend, he enjoyed this rich life by rewarding.
When he was out of breath and looked for another job, he was no longer able to do other jobs well.
He always thinks that ordinary work is too hard and the anchor can get the money quickly.
Interconnection is a big wave.
No one can guarantee a lifetime of popularity.
Everyone should have their own personal skills.
A woman's choice of spouse is not just about his face value, maybe his face value makes you want something.
But it's not just the face value that determines your life.
People will face illness and death, and their face value will drop.
What remains unchanged is ability, knowledge and experience, which are really to be considered.
03. Ability is the most important thing.
Some people may have more money at home, so the family can satisfy the bride price he gives to the woman.
This woman may feel good.
She can get what she wants, but the man himself has no ability. They still live a life of gnawing at old bones Will this last long?
Marriage is the life of two people, and it has something to do with others, but not much.
This shows how much ability accounts for in the mate selection criteria.
Some people think that the gap in academic qualifications cannot determine a person's ability.
But some people will think that she is an undergraduate, and she wants to find a comparable undergraduate.
What kind of person you are determines what kind of person you will meet in the future.
It often appears in TV series. Some people were born in Rome, others will never be there.
Different circles will encounter different things.
And capable people determine whether your future marriage is happy or not.
Why it is important for men to have the ability.
He has the ability to create a better future for you, he also has the ability to make the woman progress with him, and he is more capable of shouldering the responsibility of being a husband every day.
The standard of mate selection is not the requirement of wealth and face value. Women should be more concerned about whether a man is capable.
A blogger also shared a particularly interesting thing.
She said that rich and capable people need to be rich and capable when choosing a partner, because only in this way can they promote each other.
Even if this woman and this man break up and divorce, this woman still has no shortage of suitors.
Therefore, the standard of choosing a spouse in marriage is not only choosing a spouse, but also choosing yourself. Starting from yourself, you can find out what kind of person you are.
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