A letter to my 16-year-old son Fan.
Son:
How time flies! Sixteen years have passed in a flash. You also bid farewell to teenagers and called them youth, and your thoughts gradually matured from obscurity. The figure has grown taller, from children to adults. Anyway, no matter how old you are, whether you are by my side or not, you will always be a child in my eyes, and your consideration is not perfect. My heart will always care about you.
Son, you have become a student of Rudong Middle School in Shuyang. You have the best and most beautiful campus, the best and most respectable principal, the most beautiful and responsible teacher and the best and most friendly classmates. You are lucky, the best educational resources in the city belong to you. In this strict and hopeful school, with strict management and nervous study, you will feel very tired and bitter. You know, no matter how tired and bitter you are, it is to hone your will and your toughness. Lay a solid foundation for you to accumulate more knowledge and intangible wealth in the future. You are not the only one who is tired. I believe that teachers will be more tired, bitter, burdened and stressed than you. Your classmates will not be more relaxed than you. I believe you can do what they can do. You know very well. Dad is not a rich second generation, let alone an official second generation, but a poor peasant boy. I can't give you more resources and wealth, you can only rely on your own personal efforts and hard work to get more living space. In the competition with nearly 500 thousand candidates in the province, the reality you face is cruel and severe, and sometimes just one point can change your life. In order to get this score of 1, you may have to work harder and harder. Eat more and suffer more. Suffering from his mind and straining his bones and muscles may be the coexistence of God's attachment and test for you. As long as you can survive, you will take the most solid step in the future. My advice to you is: be able to endure hardships, atone for sins, be bored, and don't give up easily. If you can do this, you will succeed, but what is easier said than done? It requires endurance that ordinary people can't have. Although it is difficult, I hope you can do it.
Son: Of all the courses in high school, I am most worried about your poor English foundation, weak foundation and lack of interest. These are your fatal weaknesses. You can't learn English well, not because of your poor intelligence, nor because of your stupid brain and poor intelligence. How can I learn chemistry well? How to learn math well if you are stupid? I summed up the reasons for your poor English. Besides your lack of interest, there is also the fact that if you don't have enough words, you will forget words, miss words, make mistakes, and you can't read and understand. Words and grammar are the key, so it is imperative to improve the amount of words. If you can memorize all the 3500 words in the college entrance examination, I think your English level will be improved a lot. When reciting words, you can use this word to make sentences for training, remember them repeatedly, grasp reading comprehension, try to force yourself to do more than two reading comprehension articles every day, and improve your hand shape and thinking, memory and understanding abilities. Zhou Sicheng's two books are the key to this. You should spend a lot of time and energy to understand them thoroughly and get familiar with them through careful reading and reciting. To study it. Because it's all technology, not rote learning. As long as you put your heart into it, I don't think it will be difficult. The ancients said: Is it difficult to do things in the world? It's easier than it is! I think success is not far away if I can grasp Zhou Sicheng's two books. Remember Xiang Yu's motto in high school: If you die of English, you will fail the college entrance examination. Although he is not a famous artist, this tested eight-character mantra is the most true and correct truth. Remember, remember! If you fail in the college entrance examination because of poor English, won't it ruin your life? Did you suffer for nothing? Overcome your laziness, take action and work hard. After the college entrance examination, you will find out how great you are! At that time, when you look back on the road you have traveled, you will proudly say: I didn't waste three years in high school, and youth is my master.
Son, I sincerely hope that after graduating from high school, you can give me a satisfactory answer sheet. I believe you can succeed!
dad
XX，XX，XX，XX
A letter to my 16-year-old son Fan.
My son:
Happy birthday!
It's cloudy today, and it will rain occasionally. Although there is no sunny day, my mother's heart is clear in Wan Li, just because today is the 19th day of the eighth lunar month, which is the baby's birthday.
Today, you will be 16 years old. 16 years old, the same age as flowers, how beautiful! Every time I look at your taller and taller figure, youthful face and listen to the words you care about, my mother's happiness is like a flower. My son, you have grown up!
When you grow up, you will help your parents do a lot of work. Go shopping with your mother. The food you buy is always in your hand. I said it was too heavy. Mom, please mention some. You said, no, my son is just using it.
Working with dad is not afraid of hardship and fatigue. You can't find femininity in a child who grew up in a city.
You will carefully remind dad to pay attention to safety, smoke less and drink less. You will tell your mother to go to bed early so as not to get sick because of staying up late. At that time, mom and dad were very warm in their hearts.
During the summer vacation, you learned how to make dough. Your dough is much better than your mother's. Since then, you have to make dough every time you wrap jiaozi. Every time you package jiaozi with your mother, her heart is full of happiness.
Every time my dad goes out of town, you plan to package jiaozi for my dad. You said that when I got on the horse and got off jiaozi's horse, my dad was as busy as a bee before he left, but he would take time to eat you and bread jiaozi before he left. Although my father didn't say anything, I know he must be elated when he eats jiaozi.
In my brother's eyes, you are a handsome and cool brother. You can dance street dance, play guitar, draw pictures, take care of your brother, send him to class, help him with his homework, and support him when he is bullied. It feels good to have a brother like you!
Last night, when you came back from self-study next night, you posted a message on QQ: I will take on some laws and regulations at 0: 00 on the 19th day of the eighth lunar month, and I don't have to bear the legal consequences as before, and my wonderful childhood will pass away. Oh, goodbye?
Yes, son, when you grow up, you will bid farewell to your childhood and make a transition to adulthood. Are you ready? 16 years old, what should you do?
16 years old, at this age as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, the first thing my mother wants is that you have a healthy body. When a pimple on your face was misdiagnosed as a tumor three years ago and you were diagnosed with occult blood in stool last year, can you understand your mother's sadness and helplessness? What mom wants most is your health and safety.
Over the past six months, you have been actively exercising, and your body is great, and your mother is full of joy. You go running every night during the summer vacation. Now you say that everyone in physical education class is free to move. You ran 1600 meters, and you were not tired at all. My mother was very happy to hear the news.
Son, a healthy body is the foundation of everything, and it is the cornerstone for men to undertake family responsibilities and social obligations. Riding a bike must pay attention to safety, stay away from junk food, eat more fruits and vegetables, put health first and personal safety first.
16 years old, at this age as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, with a healthy body, your first task is to study. You sometimes talk about a classmate, but you don't always study hard. You also play games online, but you are good at math and physics. Son, I know you are obsessed with your own mathematics and physics.
Although people often say that every child is born the same, mother thinks that this is not the case. Human intelligence has a lot to do with acquired learning, but it also has congenital genetic factors. Some children are naturally sensitive to music, some children are naturally sensitive to numbers, and so on. Therefore, some children are suitable for studying literature, while others are suitable for studying science.
But not everything can be decided by nature. Do you still remember the business you studied? Fang Zhongyong can be said to be a child prodigy. Zhong Yong is five years old. He can write four poems, can write his own name, and doesn't know the writing tools. But what about his father? Sun Ban Zhong Yonghuan praised the city people and didn't make them learn? Until? And then everyone disappeared? Therefore, the efforts of the day after tomorrow are the most important. Mom wants you to work harder on relatively weak subjects, and I believe you will achieve ideal results.
16 years old, at this age as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, with your image, there may be many girls who like you, and you will also have girls you like. All this is normal, and my mother won't make a fuss. This kind of secret love and even general contact are acceptable.
However, my mother doesn't approve of public dating and love. First, after three years of high school, I will go to the ends of the earth, and this feeling will not last long; Second, it will affect mental health and academic performance; Third, after you go to college, your horizons will be broadened, your social circle will expand, and you will meet more and more outstanding girls.
Moreover, like is just like, like can't be equal to love. Love is a kind of responsibility, there is no eternal love, only eternal responsibility. Now I am in the stage of studying, and I have no job and financial resources. Now I can't take responsibility. Don't take it lightly? Love? Speak out loud, save the best time for your own efforts and prove yourself with your own efforts.
Mom believes that you can distinguish right from wrong and make the right choice. Of course, your youth is up to you, and your mother will not force you to do what you have to do or what you are not allowed to do, but remember: don't try! Because this involves legal and moral issues, and involves the future happiness of both individuals and even families, this kind of harm has exceeded the affordability of ordinary people.
Son, you have grown up and don't say anything to your mother. To tell the truth, my mother is sometimes frustrated, but she will adjust slowly. You can have your own little secret, but remember, mom is your forever friend. When you need it, turn around and I will always stand behind you.
It's late, mom. Let's stop nagging here! I meant to write to you at noon, but it was put off until after zero. When you read this letter, it should be noon tomorrow. Please forgive my mother's delay.
Happy birthday to the baby again!
Love your mother.
XX，XX，XX，XX
A letter to my 16-year-old son Fan Wensan.
Dear son:
Congratulations, you are one year older! 16 years old is a new starting point for your life. I hope you will embark on a new journey with confidence and expectation and move forward towards your own goals.
15 years old, your efforts and efforts finally paid off, and you finally got into the best high school in the city. Although your father and I both want you to enter this school, it is not what you want to enter, but now that you have been admitted, let go of all kinds of unwillingness, face the reality and adapt to it. I believe you will like this school in the end.
My parents know that the reason why you reject this school is because there are too many masters here, and the pressure of being surrounded by schoolmasters is too great, which makes you breathless. I often feel your pressure, and I understand your idea of escaping from this highly competitive place, but I hope you can meet the difficulties instead of escaping, because escaping can't solve the problem. Some difficulties seem difficult to overcome, but when you really face them, you find that they are all paper tigers. You just have to face up to the phenomenon of many experts and be yourself. You don't have to compete with others or argue with others.
16 years old, should be sensible, should think about how to go in the future, how to use actions to realize their dreams. Son, when watching the Incheon Asian Games some time ago, you envied others for winning gold medals and bonuses, but do you know how hard they have to work to win this gold medal? Everyone's success is not achieved casually by luck, but through unremitting efforts and hard work, step by step, bit by bit towards success.
Son, I know you were really good at the final sprint of the third grade, so you made amazing achievements in the senior high school entrance examination, which made people sit up and take notice. But these impressive achievements have become your history, and you can't indulge in the joy of the past. You have to look ahead, there are heavier tasks ahead! Three years in high school is the key to getting into a good university!
I often tell you that even if you don't take the college entrance examination in China, you should learn high school courses well, because these are the foundations. The place where you go to college must have a solid foundation, so that you can gain a foothold in the university and go further in your future study. And I also want to tell you that if you choose to enter a foreign university, you must pay more time and energy than other students, because you are competing with peers all over the world, and the competition must be more intense than at home. A good university only recruits excellent students, not mediocre ones.
Son, you are excellent and hard-working, but parents always want their sons to be better and harder, so they often nag you tirelessly. I hope you don't show impatience, because every parent wants a bright future, and I hope you can understand this urgency.
Son, you have many good habits. I hope you can keep them. Some habits I often fish for three days and dry the net for two days, but you can persist for several years, which is really worth learning from your mother! However, I am better than you in one thing, that is, keep reading and form a good habit of reading. Reading can nourish the mind, broaden one's horizons and improve one's learning ability. Many successful people are people who love learning and reading. No matter how busy they are, they will find time to read. Three years in high school is definitely a heavy task and a lot of homework, but we must make time to read extracurricular books, improve our literary literacy and broaden our horizons. I believe that as long as you get into the habit of reading, you will love reading and gain more wisdom from it.
/kloc-at the age of 0/6, you are like a young eagle with wings spread, eager to fly towards your goal. In the future, your wings will become harder and harder. Mom and dad can only look at you from a distance, miss you, and hope you can fly higher and higher. But no matter where you are or how far you fly, remember that home is your resting place, and your parents will always be the people who love you the most!
Finally, happy birthday to you 16, son! Start a new life journey in a new school. I hope you can hold your head high, stand up and enjoy every day of high school life happily and healthily!
XXX
XX，XX，XX，XX
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