Can people really change their own destiny?

To tell the truth, I made the rules myself. What others call "experience", you can have your own experience, whether it is accepted at first or not, as long as you succeed in the end, this is your criterion, and if you have great achievements, this is the "winner theorem". Then others will follow you.

What if fate doesn't change? You still have to live. If it changes, it will still "end" one day.

So, don't "change yourself" for the sake of "change", there is no direction. If you want to change, you must live better for yourself and get more "real wealth" you want and deserve.

There is no shortage of people with diplomas, civil servants, politicians and thinkers in modern society. There are many innovations and inventions every day, and there are also many "new official standards" and "career theories". But recently, around you, I'm afraid there is no such "earth-shaking" rapid change? The reason is that others talk about "limitations", or people around them "sit back and enjoy the success" and wait for "bosses" and "customers". In fact, the only thing that limits yourself is money. So "move" yourself. If you feel that you are "worthless and have a wife and children all your life", then you don't have to hesitate-rushing ahead, no matter how you fail, it won't be bad. Anyway, living is meaningless. If that is the second kind-you are so confident, there is no need to sit in front of the computer all day and stay at home and at that unit. There are many things you can do and you can do it. Even a little contribution to "interests" and "the world" is enough for you to spend your whole life. You know, the XXX light wasted by the country every day is several hundred million! ! All kinds add up to tens of billions of resources. It costs hundreds of millions and billions of dollars to build an airplane and send it to any country. Even if you have the ability to get that small part, there is no need to sit quietly in the "office chair" for a lifetime because the money is not enough.

Every unit likes self-confidence, individuality, good character and making money. Starting from basic posts is also a way. If the leader is not your "friend", you should try to make him your friend. In short, letting him care about you and trust you is the most important condition for you to achieve greater development. The way to make friends is not to have fun, nor to talk more. The important thing is that you appreciate your boss, and your boss appreciates you. This is the premise of making friends in the workplace. )

In short, living is hope.