In ancient times, people generally wanted sons to look like their mothers and daughters to look like their fathers. This is because the ancients believed that if a son looks like his mother, it is a "boy-girl look". In ancient times, this appearance was regarded as a kind of "wealth". I won't be rich or expensive in the future, but at least I will be well fed and clothed. And if a girl looks like her father, it means that this girl is born to be a rich husband, and getting married in the future will be of great help to her husband, and her career will go up a storey still higher, and she will naturally have no worries about food and clothing.
In fact, these statements are also unreasonable, because the inheritance of human appearance is either like father, mother or a combination of father and mother, and the specific appearance is random and irregular. Moreover, a person's appearance does not determine his future achievements. Even today when eating noodles, only a few people succeed by their faces. Therefore, this old saying is just a good blessing from the ancients for their children's future growth. I hope they can all grow up healthily and make great achievements.
How should parents play their role in children's growth?
1, family atmosphere affects children's personality.
What kind of person a child will grow up in the future has a deep relationship with the family environment. If the relationship between parents is not very good and they often quarrel at home, then the family atmosphere will be very bad, and the child's personality will easily become weak and insecure, or stubborn and rebellious.
And if parents have a good relationship, husband and wife live in harmony, understand each other and respect each other, then in such a loving family, the child's personality will be very sunny, cheerful, caring and compassionate. Therefore, for the sake of family, husband and wife, and children, parents must work hard to manage each other's feelings.
Parents should encourage their children and cultivate their confidence.
Many parents are not very good at praising their children. They think that children will not brag, and they will easily get carried away in the future, but they just don't know how to educate their children. For example, some fathers don't know how to communicate with their sons, but they are more accommodating to their daughters.
Coupled with the vague praise of parents, they repeatedly said "very good, great". It is easy for children to understand the meaning of perfunctory. Therefore, it is also a technical job for parents to praise their children. It is more important to pay attention to the details of children's growth or their hard-working attitude, so that children will have a steady stream of motivation and become more and more confident in their own personality.
3, mom has a good temper, and dad has a big pattern, which is the best feng shui.
A family in which the mother is good-tempered, tolerant and kind, and the father has a sense of responsibility, understanding and respect for the children is the best feng shui. In such a family, children can learn kindness and love from their mothers and responsibility and responsibility from their fathers, and their future achievements will be very high.