Many friends ask: My lover and I are not compatible with each other, and my family is against it, but we are unwilling to give up. What should I do?
There are many such examples in reality, and not only between lovers, but also between some collaborators. In fact, the issue of inconsistent zodiac signs is a relatively broad issue of marriage and cooperation. If this problem is not handled well, it will affect marital happiness and career development.
Marriage with zodiac signs has been popular since ancient times and is an important part of zodiac culture. Especially some older people pay more attention to the coordination of zodiac signs. Some real-life examples have given them a lot of inspiration. , so they will be very concerned about their children's marriage and love zodiac signs. If any discrepancy is found, of course, "interference" will be made. So, is the interference of parents justified?
The so-called incompatibility of the zodiac signs mainly refers to the conflict, harm, and punishment between the zodiac signs, such as "six clashes", "six harms", and "three punishments". Sometimes there are some strong conflicts. It is also within the category of inconsistent zodiac signs.
Liu Chong refers to the conflict between the five elements between the six pairs of zodiac signs, such as: Rat, Wu and Horse, Chou Ox and Sheep, Yin, Tiger, Shen and Monkey, Mao, Rabbit and Unitary Rooster, Chen. The dragon and the dog are in conflict with each other, and the snake and the pig are in conflict with each other.
This kind of conflict is actually a kind of conflict between different five elements. It is mostly manifested in the personality, temperament, and stance of the two people. It will form a big difference, so they get along with each other full of contradictions. However, The more incompatible people are, the more likely they are to attract each other. This is because opposites attract in physics. However, although there is emotional attraction, the personalities and concepts of the two parties are very different, and sometimes it is difficult to integrate, so it is difficult to get along. Even if they barely go through a journey, the possibility of eventually parting ways is very high.
The six harms are also called the six penetrations, which also refer to the harm of the five elements between the six pairs of zodiac signs. The degree is slightly worse than the six conflicts. For example: rats and goats harm each other, oxen and horses harm each other, tigers and snakes harm each other, rabbits and dragons harm each other, monkeys and pigs harm each other, roosters and dogs harm each other.
This kind of mutual harm actually plays a destructive effect on the five elements that are in harmony, such as the union of Zi and Chou, but the conflict between Zi and Chou in the future will hinder the union of Zi and Chou. Therefore, if people of the zodiac sign that harm each other form a lover or couple, they will cause trouble and often quarrel, which will affect the relationship, and some people will eventually break up or get divorced.
Xingxing refers to the punishment between different zodiac signs. Traditionally, it is believed that the intensity of punishment is greater than the conflict. Metaphorically speaking, if confrontation is just an argument and harm is injury, then punishment is a fight.
There are several forms of punishment, including three punishments and self-punishment. For example: Zi (rat) and Mao (rabbit) are punished with each other, which is a rude punishment. Yin (tiger), Ji (snake), and Shen (monkey) punish each other, which is a punishment based on power. The punishment of Chou (cow), Wei (sheep), and Xu (dog) is a punishment without kindness.
The above three kinds of punishments are all taboos in marriage.
In addition, there are four groups of self-punishment: Chenchen (Dragon), Wuwu (Horse), Youyou (Chicken), and Haihai (Pig). Self-punishment means that you can’t get along with yourself, such as Hai ( Pig) people will encounter self-injury in the Year of the Pig again. Specifically speaking of marriage, these four groups of people with the same zodiac sign are not suitable to be together, otherwise they will "fight" and "kill each other."
From the perspective of practical experience, among the above-mentioned punishments, Chouxu punishment and Yinsi punishment are the more serious, followed by Zimao punishment, and Chenwu Youhai punishment again.
The so-called "punishment" is actually a form of generation and restraint of the five elements. For example, when the child is strong, it punishes the Mao and drowns it, but when the child is weak, it can also produce Mao and help it grow. This requires In terms of distinguishing different environments; in addition, among the three punishments of Yin, Si and Shen, Yin Shen is originally Liu Chong, while Si Shen is Liu He. In addition to the mutual punishment of Yin and Si, only when these three attributes are combined together, Only when the three are punished each other, for example, if parents born in the year of Tiger and Snake give birth to a child born in the year of Monkey, it constitutes the three punishments of Yin, Si and Shen. This may be an unfortunate family combination.
So the marriage of "criminal" is more complicated and cannot be understood at once. It depends on different situations.
The compatibility of zodiac signs is the basis of marriage. It is as important as the roots of a big tree, but it is only one character in the eight-character stem and branch. It is relatively broad and general, not specific enough, and cannot reflect the whole picture. Therefore, Some couples who are conflicting in reality live a relatively normal life. This is because in addition to the conflicting character in their horoscopes, there must be elements that are compatible with each other. Even if some couples or lovers have similar zodiac signs, if their horoscopes are in conflict and are greater than the compatibility of birth signs, they may break up and get divorced. Therefore, we cannot generalize and analyze the specific situation in detail. The horoscope marriage is based on the combination of stems and branches, "heaven and earth are in harmony", and it is a combination of four pillars and eight characters, so the reference value is much greater than that of zodiac signs.
It can be seen from this that it is understandable that parents, out of love, based on their experience, and strictly following ancient precepts, provide guidance on their children's marriage, do something and not do something. Some opinions are worthy of reference and should not be dismissed out of hand. If you still have questions that you don't understand, it's best to ask an expert to give you a detailed analysis and get a clear answer so that you can adjust and change the problems in your marriage and strive for a happy marriage.
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