First, if you really like this child and like him, then accepting him as your adopted son will definitely be good for you! Look at the eight characters, it must be close! So, you don't have to look.
Second, if you are unfamiliar with children, you may wish to find someone to look at the eight characters, provided that you must be proficient, not fooling. However, in my experience, there are still many pseudo-experts. So don't look.
It is recommended not to entangle. If you like children and children like you, you can admit it. If one party doesn't like it, don't force it.