Barbie Hsu, the big S, became a well-known star with the corner of Chinese fir in Meteor Garden. In 2008, she co-starred with Louis Koo in the film Keep Talking, and was nominated for best actress in the 28th Hong Kong Film Awards. Just when her career was in full swing, her marriage ended. They often sprinkle dog food outside, while Big S basks in his short hair style in Weibo. Wang Xiaofei commented on three words "wash, cut and blow".
S and Wang Xiaofei fell in love at first sight, their matchmaker was Ann, and two people who had nothing in common met at Ann's birthday party. Wang Xiaofei was attracted by this beautiful and lovely girl at the first sight of Big S, and then Wang Xiaofei started the mode of chasing Big S crazily. They fell in love and got married so soon that many people were caught off guard.
In big S's eyes, Wang Xiaofei is a very talented person, who takes care of people especially. No matter on social platforms or in activities, Big S is deeply dependent on Wang Xiaofei in words and actions. They participated in the comprehensive program "Trio of Happiness", in which Wang Xiaofei doted on Big S. When they went out together, Wang Xiaofei always stopped his wife's shoulder, and Big S also liked to be bored with her husband.
At that time, the flash marriage between Big S and Wang Xiaofei caused a sensation in the whole entertainment circle, business genius and celebrities. They are a match made in heaven. However, some people think that the time they have known each other is too short and their feelings are not strong. This marriage may not last. As it turns out, they love each other very much. They have been in love for so many years and have a pair of lovely children.
From acquaintance to engagement, Wang Xiaofei and Big S broke the spell of "flash marriage and flash separation" within one month. In the eyes of many people, people who get married by flash marriage don't know each other very well. After marriage, many problems will be exposed and many contradictions will arise. However, Big S and Wang Xiaofei were particularly grumpy after they got married. It can be said that they are very lucky to find each other in the vast sea of people.
When she married Wang Xiaofei, she was at the peak of her career, but after marriage, she gradually faded out of the entertainment circle and became a good wife. Even Wang Xiaofei once said that if Big S didn't marry him, she might have a better career development. However, in big S's heart, she still appreciates Wang Xiaofei. Her husband is responsible for his family and is so outstanding in his career. Both of them have paid and contributed to each other and met the right person at the right time.
Every interaction between loving couples is so sweet. Big S has a husband, Wang Xiaofei, who dotes on happiness like a princess. After so many years of ups and downs, they have become an enviable model couple in the entertainment circle.
Weibo said "I just want to cry" when S collapsed. Why do netizens feel the same way?
"When people reach middle age, they have to soak wolfberry in a thermos cup." Many people who have been here lament the ruthlessness and cruelty of time. When people reach middle age, all kinds of things begin to develop in a bad direction, which often seems very helpless and sad. The psychological defense of middle-aged people is actually quite fragile. Some changes and troubles in life will really drag a person down.
I feel the same way and sympathize with the remarks made by Star S on the Internet. The thing is, Big S wrote in Weibo: For some reason, my daughter suddenly fell ill, accompanied by high fever and diarrhea.
Seeing this situation, she rushed to the hospital with her baby in her arms late at night, until the doctor determined the reason and said that the baby was fine, and she was relieved. She doesn't feel strong, so she wants to sit on the ground and cry. It's really too difficult.
Many netizens, seeing such news, are comforting Big S, hoping that she can cheer up. It is not easy to be a mother at this time. The distress of netizens makes many parents feel that it is not easy to have a big S. They have paid a lot of sweat for their children's healthy growth and suffered tremendous psychological pressure and life hardships.
In fact, it's not just stars. Many ordinary families are very anxious when their children are sick. For the sake of their children's health, they spent all their savings and even tried their best to seek medical treatment. In middle age, it seems that sacrificing time and energy for others may be the only way for everyone, and no one can avoid it.
The most feared problem for middle-aged people is that their children get sick, their parents die and they get sick. Why do you say that?
Ms. Hong who lives in Hangzhou is actually an unfortunate mother. Her daughter was diagnosed with "depression" on the first day of grade one. Although she has been a full-time mother since giving birth, it backfired. Her children are always stumbling in their growth. When they were young, they were not good at getting in touch with their peers and their academic performance was not very good. Until the sixth grade, Ms. Hong found something was wrong with the child and took her to the hospital. Only then did she know that her child was ill.
As a middle-aged person, Ms. Hong was very desperate and emotionally collapsed when she heard the news that her child was ill. She never imagined that her daughter, whom she regarded as a treasure, would get such a disease. For a time, she herself entered a dark circle, and her life lost its former glory. Every day, she not only takes care of her children's daily life, but also accompanies them to school regularly.
It can be seen that children's illness is a great blow to their parents, even more concerned than their own illness. This may be the fetters of family ties. Parents' love for their children in parent-child relationship is always selfless and great.
Mr. Huang, 47, never imagined that his father's tough body quietly passed away two days ago. As usual, he wandered around the community, accidentally slipped and never got up again. When Mr. Huang learned the news, he immediately returned to his hometown from Beijing. He didn't stop almost all night, just want to go back quickly.
After arriving at the hospital, Mr. Huang began to cry like a child. Sitting alone on a bench in the hospital corridor, he couldn't calm his messy mood for a long time. According to Mr. Huang, "I lost my mother when I was young and have been taken care of by my father. Unexpectedly, my work is rising, but there is such bad news. "
Now Mr. Huang's heart is empty and he hasn't recovered for several days. He can only adjust his state while dealing with his father's affairs. This kind of heavy heart, perhaps only experienced middle-aged people can understand, "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise it without waiting for his relatives" is constantly being staged in life.
Liu Jing in the TV series Little Joy,
She is a "strong" mother, who manages the big and small things at home every day and takes care of the daily life of her husband and children. When there is a rift between father and son, she acts as a "peacemaker" and skillfully harmonizes the relationship between the child and the father, which can be described as a dedication to the family.
By the time she arranged things clearly at home, she was very ill. In order not to affect her husband at work and her son in the college entrance examination, she chose to hide it and went to the hospital for surgery alone. Every time I see this clip, there are many parents who send out words of love and sympathy in the comments.
When people reach middle age, their burdens and responsibilities become heavier and heavier. Many times, coordinating families and dealing with relationships has become a top priority. On the contrary, they must keep healthy. Once they get sick, they worry about the whole family, but they are afraid that their own problems will affect the rhythm of the family.
"Life is unhappy, nine times out of ten", especially in middle age, a person's life may have a different plan and trajectory, and some unexpected and unexpected things will roll in and cannot be stopped, only through correct handling.
So how should parents reduce the occurrence of these three problems?
Children's living habits, food, clothing, housing and transportation actually need their parents' attention and companionship. The etiology of most children has a lot to do with their environment. Therefore, parents need to provide their children with a healthy and warm environment and atmosphere, so that they can know the changes in their physical, psychological and behavioral aspects in advance in stages and take countermeasures in advance.
When people reach middle age, their parents' health will soon grow old. At this time, what they need most is the companionship and communication of their children. After all, in quiet and boring days, everyone wants to talk to some close people. At this time, as parents, they can spend some time to go home often, chat with the elderly and have a heart-to-heart talk, and their mood will become very good. And they can also take the elderly to the hospital for physical examination to prevent problems before they happen.
You must have a clear understanding of your body, at the same time, do a good job of self-regulation, don't work too hard, and leave room for everything, so that you won't feel too tired and consume your spirit, maintain good work and rest habits, eat healthily and exercise regularly, and also reduce the chance of getting sick.
When people reach middle age, the most important thing is to learn to adjust their mentality when encountering these problems. Even if these things disrupt their rhythm, they still have to face life positively, work hard, create their own lives, and realize their personal values for the development of the whole family.
How do you think parents should reduce the occurrence of these three problems when people reach middle age? If you have any different views and ideas, please leave a message in the comments section, and we can discuss and communicate together.
Barbie Hsu (197665438+1October 6th-), a female, also known as Da S, made her debut at the age of 17 and became an instant hit with a song "Ten Minutes of Love". Later, he hosted eight issues of "100% Entertainment" with Xiao S, and established his position in the entertainment circle. 200 1 Became popular in Asia for her role as Shan in Meteor Garden, and was shortlisted for the Golden Bell Award for Best Actress, becoming the most powerful new generation artist. So far, Da S has worked as a record singer, host, heroine, film actress, writer and other occupations. On March 20 1 1 year, she married Wang Xiaofei. On February 2, 20 13, 13, Da S took photos of her pregnant belly through Sina Weibo, and admitted her pregnancy for the first time. On the afternoon of 20 14, Beijing time, Da S successfully gave birth to her daughter and uploaded her daughter's feet in Weibo, expressing "infinite gratitude!" Big S wrote: "The little girl is safe and grateful."