A, shrewd, scheming, IQ is not necessarily high, but very resourceful and accurate in judging people. Only he calculates the share of others, which is difficult for ordinary people to calculate.
Second, inner strength,
I don't care what others think of me. I am heartless and even indifferent at heart, but I look gentle, amiable and close on the outside.
Third, he worked hard and suffered a lot. He knows the bitterness and cruelty at the bottom of society, so he can make efforts to surpass others. If someone else's effort is 10, he can achieve 20 points.
Fourth, compared with doing things, being a man is at a higher level and is very familiar with the world in society. They are comfortable in speaking and doing things, and show higher emotional intelligence than ordinary people. Even if you meet an annoying person, you can talk and laugh with him if you have interest needs.
Fifth, don't mess with those rotten people and pester them.
Stay away from people who will drag you down. Only deal with people who are better than you, and you will naturally become better and better.
Sixth, realize that the world is cold and human feelings are warm and cold early. Therefore, their hearts are hard enough, and they will not necessarily hurt others for the benefit, nor will they resort to unscrupulous means, but they will never allow others to hurt themselves.
Seven, insight into human nature,
I understand that the essence of interpersonal relationship is the exchange of interests. I can restrain my feelings very well, I won't talk to people easily, I am better at using interests to maintain interpersonal relationships, and I am stingy with unnecessary expenses.
Eight, I know that money is hard to come by, but I am also very happy with the money I spend, such as spending money to make friends, saving time and so on.