In addition, if the woman really likes each other and loves each other, she should at least have some kind of "elopement" behavior! (but the fact should not, you can feel such a heavy blow from men! )
I have been in love and have experienced the love experiences of countless people. Most people's love experiences are basically the same: it is impossible for everyone to fully agree and support, and two people in love need to work together and strive for it!
The madness and persistence of love are not affected by the regional cultural environment!
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Most people will think that their parents are "superstitious" and backward in feudalism when they see the "eight-character incompatibility", but it's not entirely true!
That is the pain of backwardness, that is the pain of poor economic conditions, and that is the pain of parents' inability to change their children's economic status!
Therefore, under such economic conditions and environment, parents would rather choose "superstition" and choose a good object for their children, hoping to "create" a good condition for their children and hope that their children will have a better life and conditions!
This is the essence of the concept of "genus" in rural areas. Poor conditions are true, parents love their children!
Most of my life research space is in the countryside, and most of the people I contact are rural people. People basically ignore many habits and stresses in marriage and love:
First, young people don't care.
Due to the different educational experiences of peers, the gap of marriage age has widened, which naturally destroys the traditional marriageable age structure. It is impossible to pursue the traditional concept of "genus".
What's more, young people's ideas are updated, and there will be more rebellious thoughts and behaviors! Love itself is so difficult to produce, if you pursue these added values, it will be even harder to find true love!
Second, the economic conditions are much better than in the past.
This is the key, this is the point!
This concept is the same as overweight bride price in rural areas. If the conditions are good, there is no need to mention such a heavy realistic bride price. Parents can't understand this truth! Not many parents will joke about their children's marriage and lifelong happiness!
However, one thing is that young people in love need to be sober enough:
In life, there are not many people who really care about and love us, so we must cherish it!
In reality, love will be defeated by too many things. It is better to pursue less added value of love, such as rings, buildings and even wedding photos on high buildings.
These things are gone, you can look for them slowly, but without love, you may never meet them again!